i like to make friends?

Question

i can not make friends, i try to talk to them, i try joke with them, they just tell me get lost or they walk away, i have never had a girlfriend because i'm well ugly, so one the main reasons they will not talk to me is cause they think i'm gay, now life it getting to hard for me know, all i want is to be happy, lots of mates and a girlfriend, how come its to hard to ask for, is there anything good about life, i'm beginning to think why am i here, theres no place on this planet for me, :(( :((

to be honest i have no friends, not even one, but i try to get you,

i'm a 20 year old boy, i'm not fat or big how ever you put it,

Answer 1

aww huni....dont worry..ill be ur [e-mail]
xxxxxx

Answer 2

Yes indeed there is a place on this planet for all of us
and you need not be lonely
And I am sure you are not ugly
and I can be your friend if you like
[e-mail]
You have a long life ahead of you and the right girl
will come along some day give it some time
Yes life is hard on everybody male or female and whoever
told you that life is easy it is not
and we all have our moments here and there

Just try to make the best of it in your life and find things
to do to make you happy
Something that you love doing and send me an e-mail

I want to be your friend ok

Answer 3

It sounds like you are trying too hard. Be yourself, don't pretend to be something your not, people will see through it. People respect and admire different people for different reasons, but they must be true to themselves to get respect etc from others around you.
Well I am gay and there was nothing I could do about it. I was given a particularly hard time at school because of it, and pretty damn miserable. Now ten years further on in life, I realise though not my fault what so ever, my perception was wrong. I let people put me down, I felt bad about myself and generally really low. You have a choice. Do not listen to what other people say, ignore them, believe in yourself. Young people are ignorant of what they say to people, they don't realise the extent of the damage it can cause. The damage is all in your head, but only if you let it. That is the key. Do not let others put you down. Think of positive thoughts, don't dwell on the negative.
Everything in life you have to work for to achieve. Don't settle for friendship with just anybody, find 'real' people and in time you will find happiness and what you want.
There is lots of good in life, as well as bad, one can't exist without the other. Time is a healer, and also a chance to make changes. Make the good in life play a much bigger part in your life, things don't happen overnight. Just think positive, and believe it. Best of luck mate

Answer 4

If you have enough money, go to strip club and enjoy how shallow people really live. You really not smart since your asking how to make friends, you must have a hobby and social interaction like sports to have friends. When you enjoy an activity, you can meet others that enjoy the same thing and talk about it after wards, then get better at it and evolve into a flexible human being. If all else fails try the military, you can make life long friends that share knowledge and experiences. If you become unsocial, you will have emotional issues later in life.

Answer 5

Try joining a cookery class or martial arts or foreign language class some other evening class where you can make friends. After going for a while you might click with some others and become friends. Go to a singles bar? I don't really know honey, maybe your trying too hard. But those ones who tell you to go away are not worth knowing any way. Good luck. xx

Answer 6

Dont be down! How old are you? There are more important things than looks. If People cant see past what you look like, then they are not worth knowing anyway. Im sure your not "well ugly" Be happy with what you are. If you are young you will blossom and if you are older you need to look harder at your self and see all your good points. Know in your own heat you are a good kind person and others will see it too. As for the other kids My their faces get spots and their arses flabby!

Answer 7

You're not ugly. Forget about chasing people down to become your friends. They are not worth it. Focus on your goals, impress yourself and you will find, that others will now pay attention to you. If it's hard for you to be comfortable with who you are, pretend. The more you pretend the more you will like yourself. Some person will see the guy inside you and love you for that. Do your part too. Get a different hairstyle, change your style of clothes, as long as your comfortable with it. Believe me when I tell you beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Nobody is ugly. Okay?

Answer 8

don't give up on yourself, you are having a difficult time at the moment, maybe you are a bit depressed. All i can say is don't try too hard ,because it puts people off. Why don't you join a club or group, like drama or judo, whatever your interested in, you will meet people with the same interests as you and will have more chance of making friends and who knows even miss right! I wish you good luck.

Answer 9

Well you defo have one thing. Your funny
Gave me a chuckle.
But in all seriousness.
I feel like what the hell is life all about all the time as I'm sure others do.
Your place on this planet will come in time.
I bet your only a teenager.
Plus it's not how many friends have you got it's
how good are the friends you already have.
You must have one good friend.
That's all you need.

Answer 10

Look making in friends is easy you need to find people with similar interests this may be sport music or film. Many people lack social skills and do not portray themselves very well may be go on a confidence building course that will make people like you and attract women. I was hated in school because i was surrounded by idiots i stayed true and in the adult world everyone who thought they were cool became real losers and i did great maybe it`s not your time in life for success.

Answer 11

If you obsess over trying to be someone you are not, people will think you are being fake. Everyone can be funny and attractive, as long as they are being honest in the first place. Maybe this is the first step you need to take.
Honesty is the key to most things in life (watch Liar Liar for example), people have a desire for truth and genuine feelings. Maybe you want to be friends with people who don't appreciate you. Those kind of people do not deserve your freindship.