I love this kid named Ben and he is really cute but he does not like me back and i like my bffs bro!!!!?

Question

He does not even talk to anybody and my friends told me that i should talk to him but i cant. and the other problem is that I am in love with my best friends bro whos name is Steven but he is alot younger than me(2 yrs.) me and him are friends but we dont talk to each other that much, and lets face it its not like I can get any guy that i want. Im no Angelina Jolie!!! LOL

Answer 1

Yea, thats perception anyways, but that aside you need to treat yourself better. The differents between love and infautation is deepth of feelings. And without you talking much with these guys trust me its not love in its most powerful sense. Besides your showing the age by the level of communication your having with these guys that you have "love" for. Your going to hurt yourself this way. Love and friendship go hand and hand, don't let the love get ahead of the friendship or else these boys got you by the heart and havn't even earned it yet. Pain is to come when you find out your loving enemies and not really friends. Take care and don't let insecurities control your life. Your young thou and if someone was to tell me this stuff at any age younger then I'm now I'd just think they didn't understand how hard it was for me. But I'll let you know weather your Angelina Jolie or Ugle Betty its hard to find that love, but hell if your just in it for physical experiences, have fun and try not to love to deeply.