Friends - February 2007

Today was my senior class trip to DisneyWorld. Last night, due to my high sensitivity and the fact that I'm prone to anxiety attacks, I decided not to go at the last minute. I called one of my friends who was going and told her I wasn't going and to alert the teachers, chaperones, etc of this. I didn't tell my 2 friends who I'm closer to that I wasn't going cuz I knew somehow they'd make me feel rly bad for my decision. I didn't go cuz I was getting rly rly nervous and I just knew I'd get a panic attack cuz I had a nervous breakdown 2 yrs ago that makes me sort of leary of traveling...

My 2 friends that I didn't tell are so pissed at me. They didn't even call me today. One of my other friends did and I heard in the background one of the girls saying 'is that [my name]?' but she didn't even say she wanted to talk to me like she usually would.

I'm just so hurt. I REALLY WANTED to go but I just COULDN'T & I hate myself for that.

what should i do? how can i stop feeling so bad?

2007-02-15 16:43:33 · 1 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3

sorry if words are spelled wrong. I was typing pretty fast!!

2007-02-15 16:25:59 · 1 answers · asked by susan 1

my friend and i of 17 yrs have not spoken in a year due to an argument we have not spoken in like a year due to an argument we had. I can't help but think about our friendship. i just found out she has a myspace page , should i e-mail her ?

2007-02-15 16:24:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend have a problem with her other friend. She felt that she was betrayed by her. What should I advice to her?

2007-02-15 16:17:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jeanus 2

2007-02-15 16:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by -♥- onalou -♥- 1

I want to pay her back, not financially she doesnt need anything, but She is been so good to me, I want to do something for her, that doesnt involve money what can I DO?

2007-02-15 15:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by JUST ME 3

i have a friend named Kevin Barry . He's not contact me for a long time . And i really miss him . So can anybody do me this favor?
please find me this guy by any means and tell him that Clara is looking for him . please contact me via messenger . thanks for everything .

2007-02-15 15:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by Clara 2

Why is she so pathetic she is jelouse because i have a great boyfriend and freinds and she doesnt the whole middle school hates her what should i do about her because she does need a freind..She made me cry in front of basically everyone she is just a B**** when i see her again she is goona think nothing was ever wrong but all the fights including this one is all her fault if you understand my problem plz help... i feel so stressed,....... Threw our drama i did find out my BF is perfect he stayed through all of it and wanted to go yell at my so called friendfor being a witch back to the point Does she get joy out of making my life miserable??? srry for every detail...

2007-02-15 15:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i have different opinions, and when i try to share mine, she goes off and nags me until she gets me to think she's trying to get me to change my opinion. after i ask her if that's what she's trying to do, she tries to turn the blame on me, as if there really was any to begin with...so i guess my question is, Should i keep her, or leave her?

2007-02-15 15:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

see i was and am always the reject kid in skool and got picked on too sometimes everyday in 8th grade. so i know how all those othr kids like me feel...but i've had a few friends in my life (but now skools also a lot better than in a long time)...

so in 7th grade i became friends w/ these 3 ppl and got really close to 1 (in the end they were backstabbers and one of the girls was really mean 2 me)...and there was this othr girl who would try to hang out w/ us and tht wud annoy the hell out of me and more than our other friends

i'd talk **** about her 24/7 and she cud tell i didn't like her..even my other friends were saying i was talkin 2 much..but nywayz one day we decided to make a plan we split up into 2 to see who she wud go w/...we knew she'd be confused for who to follow (she wasn't part of our 'group') (i don't remember who she followed)...tht was the meanest i was to her..i had a attitude w/ her(lyk when ppl think tye're better i didn't though but was snoby 2 her)

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1 month ago
i'm not the type 2 pick on any1 especially after middle skool and none of our 'group' did but still just the way i was towrds her was mean...like ppl can b to the loser if u know wut i mean...like i said the meanest thing i've done besides talkin s*** bout her was the when me & my 'friends seperated on purpose

and the reason i feel even more guilty than any 'average or popular' kid is becuz i knew how all tht feels it hurts when ppl r like tht...and she had nobody else in tht class besides us...i feel sometimes i deserve to be a loser becuz of how i was mean to her...sometimes when i do find friends i think i get a little attitude w/ other ppl (never tht mean though i promise)......i feel like i desrve being a loser and having no friends and social life adn ppl picking on me and hating me

it's like out of all ppl how cud I do tht ME i shud know how it feels..i said sorry to her be4 skool ended (& asked her if she forgave me she said yes) and honestly i'd NEVR forgive any1

1 month ago
who was like tht to me i HATE the ppl who were mean to me mayb she was lying but she was a;ways really nice...i wish i cud say sorry one more time

1 month ago
and no don't get tehe wrong idea of me unlike all those other mean ppl i feel guilty and actually think i desrve this.....not just tht but it's not a part of my personality....i'm not like tht...it was at tht time in tht grade.....i'm not like tht anymore....God i wish i cud go bak in time and never do tht

2007-02-15 15:48:30 · 3 answers · asked by mamama 2

My question i spretty basic.... if u can answer... then go ahead...if by any chance u live in Playa del Carmen , and u are a pretty , nice , girl...come by.

2007-02-15 15:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by rrrrrrr300 1

It is weird to find new friends at age 25? lol. I'm beginning to think I did something wrong and it makes me sad. Does anyone else have this problem?

2007-02-15 15:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1

im 13 and in the middle school still...im not pouplr at all and i sometimes get made fun of..i dont want 2 bring a purse because they would think i would try to copy them....all my teachers love me and i really dont know what to do..any advice?

2007-02-15 15:31:23 · 32 answers · asked by Shay B 1

i madeso many friendships.but they do not lost for long time,because i find many bad qualities in them then only! whether problem lies in me.

2007-02-15 15:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by gowtham k 1

ex-boyfriend will not realize that i don't like him that way and is pursueing and stalking

2007-02-15 14:56:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had been friends with this girl from primary school though to high school she put me though alot of stuff that upset me like hurting herself in front of me and hanging out with people who she thought were better then me (until they didnt like her anymore she would come back to me). i wanted to be there for her and i was we had some good times when we were kids just not all the time. until one day i had , had enough and i walked away from her at about 16yrs old and we have not been in touch for about 12yrs. She found me on a website and she sent me an email saying sorry and she wants us to be friends again i dont no if i should go there again. i no she is still unstable what do you think should i stay away from her or slowly become friends again.

2007-02-15 14:55:24 · 2 answers · asked by DJ 3

2007-02-15 14:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by becca O 1

2007-02-15 14:47:31 · 5 answers · asked by mikaelacupp 1

finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call


I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..

2007-02-15 14:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1

My friend always seems flirty, but i'm not sure if it's just being flirty or friendly in her own way, I'll let you decide. Well everytime we stand in a little group and talk, she's always looking at me even though i'm not talking, and she'll be facing me the whole time and sometimes staring me down. Sometimes she'll get very close to me to where her hair touches my arm. If i don't do something that satisfies her, she'll make a little pouty face, then laugh about it. One time i layed my head down on her side of the table just to annoy her, but she lay her head down on top of my back. Why does she act like this? I'M A GIRL. But she completely ignores me around her friends.

2007-02-15 14:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 14:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by CABB 1

i have a question well it's about my friend and me.well today i text message my friend and well i asked him if he wanted to hang out at subway well see were in college so i forgot he had a clas today and so he told me some girls who were in my math class asked him if he was the guy in the picture i showed them with his ex and he said do you know marcy and he said yeah and he thought i was talking about him and i said it was nothing bad and i told i was sorry & i told him he did'nt have to talk to me anymore if he wanted to. well see he does'nt want to talk about ex anymore and he threw the pictures away of her. i think he hates and does'nt want to be my friend anymore. well tuesday we hung out at subway & we taked and we both laughed at each other jokes or whatever and he was talking to about his ex saying she broke his heart. then he left and i asked him for a hug and he gave me a hug...

2007-02-15 14:26:50 · 2 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1

Why doesn’t she talk to me about him anymore?

My best friend really wanted to set me up with her cousin, so me, her, and our other friend hung out with him a couple times. He left me his phone number in car window paint on my car, and she was really excited that me and him MIGHT get to know each other.

She still seems like she wouldn’t mind, she still seems to think it’s a good idea, BUT she hasn’t said anything to me about him lately when normally that’s all she can talk about.

She talked to him online recently (2 days ago) saying:

“You like Lillie Carson!!!!!” (me)

Then a couple days later she talked to him again saying:

“My dad says I should keep you away from Lillie because she’s a nice girl and you aint no nice boy LOL….HES RIGHT!!!”

Why didn’t she tell me any of this?

2007-02-15 14:25:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my bff ran away with her boyfriend for 5 months then came back & told her mom she was pregnant! She didn't tell me & then her mom called me & told me. Well, i'm supposed to see her for the first time on saturday & i am totally shocked! i have no idea what to say to her or how to react. i'm happy for her but pissed off at her for being so stupid at the same time. so my question is, how do tell her how i feel w/o her freaking out at me or saying that i'm judging her or something?

2007-02-15 14:22:24 · 1 answers · asked by hellok723 3

Had a friend who used to tease me alot if i do anything against his way of thinking... But i too took a good chance of giving the same back ... he got damn wild with me & yet upto now he doesnt seems to be in good terms with me...which happaned 3 years back..

help me

2007-02-15 14:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean the kind of respect that is the same from beginning till end. what makes you have the kind of respect that is constant and not lessened to a girl you may have been with for a long time? pls site details.

thank you all.

2007-02-15 14:17:52 · 4 answers · asked by terra 4

if you have a guy who is your friend, but you are not allowed to tell them you love them or they automatically assume it is romantic. you can't even tell them you are glad they are in your life or they again assume it is romantic.

2007-02-15 14:12:20 · 5 answers · asked by CAgirl 1

me and a mate got really drunk on valentines and we slept together, the thing is he's bi and told me the other day he was being screened

2007-02-15 14:11:12 · 11 answers · asked by spunkypops 1

sent him an email that said
Can We talk again?
We havent talked for 8 months because he didn't like me for a while, i think because last year he liked me and I went out with someone else. But I told him I liked him. We haven't talked for 8 MONTHS.
What Am i supposed to do to strike up a conversation?
Or just as a beginning?
To like approach him and then talk?

2007-02-15 14:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 14:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous