Why is she so pathetic she is jelouse because i have a great boyfriend and freinds and she doesnt the whole middle school hates her what should i do about her because she does need a freind..She made me cry in front of basically everyone she is just a B**** when i see her again she is goona think nothing was ever wrong but all the fights including this one is all her fault if you understand my problem plz help... i feel so stressed,....... Threw our drama i did find out my BF is perfect he stayed through all of it and wanted to go yell at my so called friendfor being a witch back to the point Does she get joy out of making my life miserable??? srry for every detail...
2007-02-15 15:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
people make other people miserable as they dont have what you have and want it but cause they can they make you fel bad bullys are the same they put on teh tough face so they dont have to deal with there problems.
i honestly woundnt worry about herm, you have a great boyfriend stick with him
2007-02-15 17:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep a balance between your bf 's and your friends, both maybe jealous. But if she is been just a bad friend who is badly jealous and not understanding you at any point, then is not your real friend. Why the whole middle school hate her? that's questionable, I used to have a friend like that and I was her friend because I feel sorry for her cuz she didn't have friends, but reality she was just a freak :( I pay that later, be careful how you choose your friends, don't be hard on her either keep the balance, who knows maybe yo left her cuz your bf and that's is not really good excuse leave someone for someone
2007-02-16 00:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is, I think pretty typical. Lots of girls get jealous when their friends get boyfriends and they don't. Think about it from her shoes--if you switched places and you and she used to spend a lot of time together and be close and all of a sudden she got a boyfriend and started spending all her time with him, you'd miss her and be jealous, too. But just because you know where her anger is coming from doesn't mean her actions are excusable. If I were you, I'd try to keep my distance from her for a while.
I know someone said you shouldn't let boys come between friendships, and sometimes that's true, but in this case he's not the one who's making you choose between your friends and him. Eventually she's going to have to come to grips with the idea of her friends dating, or else she's going to start dating herself and then it won't bother her anymore. In the meantime the two of you may grow apart, but she's brought that on herself by showing you what she can really be like.
2007-02-16 00:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is horrible that it has to happen but that happened to me as well in middle school. She is probably lonely and angry about something so she just reacts that way cause she doesnt know what else to do.. Why not just leave her alone and let her realize what she has lost. Dont be dragged down by all that.
2007-02-16 00:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey thats her fault she doesnt have any friends you need to go straight up to her and say that she needs to chill or she wont have any friends at all she will be a loner! i know how you feel when you feel really bad for them but do you want to be stuck with it no , and drama please we girls already have enough we dont need anymore! try talking to her! if it doesnt work the i highly say you should just tell her to back off.
2007-02-16 00:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your like 25 as me she will seem so unimportant so trivial so not worth your attention or energy so move on let her be that way
2007-02-15 23:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in middle school?
Boyfriends ruin great friendships and it looks like you've started young.
Spend time with her, you are her friend!
2007-02-15 23:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by september 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of those hard times you have to say goodbye to a friend. friends arnt jealous of each other, nor do they try to make eachother jealous. either tell her whats going on and that she should shape up, or say so long
2007-02-16 00:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by that one girl from that one band 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably is feeding off your misery. she is jelous. and the only way it will stop is if you show her it doesnt bother you. when she trys to do something rude to you just ignore it. eventually she'll get tired of it becuase her little plans arent affecting you. =)
2007-02-15 23:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if girl follow by this rule but i've always learned that its bros before hoes
2007-02-16 00:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋