It is weird to find new friends at age 25? lol. I'm beginning to think I did something wrong and it makes me sad. Does anyone else have this problem?
2007-02-15 15:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes i hate that
2007-02-16 01:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Doug 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you live in a world full of active, outgoing friends, they are often going to move on, move somewhere else, find other folks who suit their new selves, etc. You can't do much about it except keep meeting new friends yourself. Eventually, once everyone kind of settles into stead jobs, steady living space, steady ways of living usually friends will last longer (but not always). When you find a real true friend though, time and space and distance won't make any difference, might not be able to physically be there for each other but there are phones and emails etc. However, at one point in my life (one of those "turning points") I thought about the people I had been calling "friends," went down the list to see how I actually and honestly felt about them and found one friend I'd kept for a long time only because our parents knew each other and though it would be so nice if the kids were friends. Ugh, that friend just used people and looking back on our relationship I found I didn't even like that person. So I just stopped communicating with her, seemed less hurtful then to say "you haven't got any idea how to be a friend, you just use people to advance yourself."
2007-02-15 16:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I became successful in my Real Estate career and I think my friends started to get a little jealous. I was able to buy two homes in 3 years and I got a brand new Jaguar and paid that off. When I got that car nobody said anything and would look away just so they wouldn't compliment on it. I feel that I got where I am now because I worked hard. They on the other hand are still living with their parents.
2007-02-15 16:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ana D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard, I am 27 and married which I think makes it a little harder to make girlfriends.. I did have friend do that and it hurt really bad cause I did not understand why she would do that. I tried to talk with her but she is still distant so I let it go. I do really understand it is not like when your young and you can easly make friends.
2007-02-15 15:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same age as you and trust me ive had new friends who have been there for me in times of trouble or just there for me rather then old friends who ive known all my life.This same goes for my life members except my younger sister whose like my own child.So its not strange at all.You be friends make new friends only whose there for you and the rest just treat them as they treat u.Im in the same boat so i totally know what your talking about.Good luck finding your real friends and family:-)
2007-02-15 15:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by moonzsunzstarz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change and grow and sometimes they grow apart. Do not be afraid to make new friends. Keep the memories and don't feel rejected, this is part of growing up.
2007-02-15 15:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it's just a part of life. Yes it's definately happened to me. But remember, everything happens for a reason.
2007-02-15 15:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by broken x|3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have friends that I have drifted apart from.
I think its normal.
2007-02-15 15:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me.
2007-02-15 18:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋