Friends - January 2007

All my life, I've found it hard to make 'girl' friends because they just never like me. I try, but they always ***** about me. What can I do-and why do you think it happens??

2007-01-26 11:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my situation is that i don't know how to talk to people my age and i feel that it had to do with my past. i was born differently then most and so i had faced some tremendous obsticles being born differently then others. i was teased and was always tryin to fit in with different crowds because i wanted to be accepted by others.
throughout my life it was very difficult to wake up and to know that this would never end. now i feel that i am in a better place then before and however there are some pieces of my past left in me. because i'm very cautious with people hurting my feelings and so forth i don't comunicate much with others and it has gotten to the point where i feel like i can't comunicate with family members and people in school. because i act this way, people get the wrong impression of me without thinkin that i might be a shy person so my question is how do i get over my low self esteem and show people who i'm really am ? i find it so hard to get out of this, how do i do it ?

2007-01-26 11:16:18 · 1 answers · asked by sosofresh 1

I have a 14 year old and would like someone to talk to online for advice. And help with how to deal with the issues that she is going through

2007-01-26 11:13:25 · 1 answers · asked by Betty Z 1

2007-01-26 11:10:19 · 14 answers · asked by powell_74851 1

2007-01-26 11:09:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this girl kristy at my school and one of my friends was friends with her. i heard a lot of bad stuff about her but i didn't really think much of it, then, i dunno what happend. she liked my brother... then after that she went out with his friend. My brother didn't like because hes been going out with this girl kay off and on for 2 years, and shes like family too me. then i got this note in my locker and it was really weird, i thought it was kristy and she freaked out on me, just about that one thing. Then i was with a girl at school amber all most all week because her friend was sick, and kristy got really mad at me, and said she was going yell at me next time i seen her. and me and kristy aren't even good friends. kay and kristy hate eachother now, becuase kristy was being stupid and trying to make me and hate kay, and tried to split kay and my brother up. And kristy said she was just being nice to her all long. and she thinks her and kay are friends, though kristy never talks

2007-01-26 11:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2

okay so i'm in 9th grade. our school days are broken up into day one and day two. on day one i have all my friends at my lunch period! yay! but on day two all i have is Madison. she sits with me, but we don't TALK. its the most boring thing in the world, plus i feel so uncool. Now, enter Carrie. she also has this lunch, but we're not friends. we used to be BEST friends. she just barely switched into the class that i have that dismisses us for lunch. so i told her i have no one to sit with at lunch, and she invited me to sit with her and her peeps. but the problem is i don't even know some of them and would probably be uncomfortable. but i'm uncomfortable when i sit with Madison too! if i sat with Carrie, Madison would have no one to sit with at all. Okay, so who should i sit with???

2007-01-26 11:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

and also a follow-up topic please!

2007-01-26 11:00:49 · 1 answers · asked by chibinovas 2

what can i do for 9 days because im grounded.i'v been grounded for 5 days i cant go to my moms house or my big sisters or use the phone or go any were.im so sad that i feel like cryin my eyes out!what can i do?

2007-01-26 10:53:36 · 3 answers · asked by clarissa d 1

2007-01-26 10:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by joelinn1974 3

2007-01-26 10:43:10 · 5 answers · asked by quiksilver23 3

A couple of years ago,i was heartbroken when my first love left me.We remained friends however,and eventually became co-dependent on eachother,and would confide in eachother about everything.He was my best friend.As he helped me through a bad relationship,he ended up telling me he was still in love with me,and i thought i felt the same.So when i left my bf,i asked if we could take things slow,and he agreed.We had some nice times but my head was everywhere though,and i ended up telling him i couldnt go out with him and i didnt want to ruin our friendship.It was also because i wanted patch things up with my boyfriend and a few weeks later i did and we're happy now.But my best friend wont talk to me.I catch him looking,and today he smiled but when i shouted on him to ask him about what happened to our friend(he was hurt) he waited on me,but i was with my bf and my friend,and suddenly he just changed his mind and said he had to run.I miss him so much,it hurts too much.Whats going on?

2007-01-26 10:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had this really good friend, and were both willing to work it out.
I asked her to come to my house for a sleepover, just us two.
She is comming, and i'm excitted and nervous, because we practially hated eachother for a while, and we weren't best friends anymore.
We have stopped fighting, and were trying to work it out.
Can you give me some ideas so we can become best friends again, and as close as we once were.
This is a sleepover, just us two, we used to be best friends, and we have a lot in common.
We are both 12, and we are in the 7th grade.
Any ideas?
Thanks!

2007-01-26 10:30:59 · 5 answers · asked by Massie L 1

hahaha, well this one girl came up to me and said "if ur gonna call me a b**** then say it to my face" and i said "well I think ur bein a b****!" and then she said "well why do you only talk to (one of my friends) and not, me," and then i said "well you deleted me from ur myspace so i cant talk to you" then she said back "well i dont even want to talk to you anyway...........does that even make sense?!?!

2007-01-26 10:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've never met them and I dont know what to say or how to say it or what moves to make. im kinda new to being cute. haha. well thanks and god bless!

2007-01-26 10:23:17 · 9 answers · asked by themalator 2

2007-01-26 10:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Walachick 2

2007-01-26 10:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by shreeroj m 1

2007-01-26 10:02:17 · 19 answers · asked by chicka loca 1

So here's the deal. We're all in high school and I have a very tight group of friends. My group represents the upper portion of my class in terms of inteligence (not to sound cocky but we're sort of the "nerds") and we make up the student government. To my utter surprise I learned that on of my close friends had feelings for another of our friends (I didn't believe it at first). And they are actually going out. But the thing is that i am only one of about five people that know this. They don't want anyone to know because her parents are traditional asian parents and are strictly against high school relationships. Last night, i was utterly surpirsed when he decied to tell me about this. And i figured that the only reason he is telling me this is so that he can get help to make sure how his realtionship can last. He said he really enjoys the way its going right now. Do you have any suggestions for their situation?

2007-01-26 10:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by ny355zz145ny355zz145 1

2007-01-26 09:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by SLP 1

Two of my good friends constantly argue and bicker and their relationship is on the rocks. I always find myself in the middle of it and I just want them to get along. What should I do?

2007-01-26 09:48:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would like to find some friends of mine, but i dont want to have to pay, is there a free site somewhere. thanks.

2007-01-26 09:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by jinxs 1

Like " I'm so emo right now!"

2007-01-26 09:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1

and he does nothing to help me in the house...i do ALL the house work( in addition to all other adult resonsibilities) we work diff shifts and when i am at work he lets the kids make a total mess of the house while i am at work...its so bad that it takes all day to clean it and i go sometimes 5 days without sleep and he thinks this ok....im tired of being the maid and have gone on strike! i refuse to be a maid....is this the right approach?

2007-01-26 09:28:01 · 31 answers · asked by Lyn T 1

2007-01-26 09:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by danielle d 2

Today was the best day for me...and yet the most confusing. I have chosen to go to Bloomsburg University Located in PA in the fall of 2007. I went up there with my boyfriend today...we live about 6 hours away we left early this morning drove up there i payed and everything is done! I'm so excited...but...i don't feel my boyfriend is. When we went up there he kind-of "complained" he said that it was taking to long and wasting his day. he then said that bloomsburg in his opinion wasn't the type of college he would attend. When i finally made my decision and payed and registered and knew that i was 100% positive that i was going there he became REALLY QUIET....he didn't say much the whole car ride home. The only thing he did say was how he had planned to go to a local college near our house for his first year then transfer. When we got home he hugged me said congratulation's and then left...
why is he acting this way? he should be happy for me! He complained today it made me feel bad..

2007-01-26 09:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is everyone here just another frustrated opinionated social outcast?

2007-01-26 09:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

He is my best friend and we have been freinds since we were 5 and ive been starting to feel that i like him more than a freind.

2007-01-26 09:21:04 · 6 answers · asked by speak 1

2007-01-26 09:17:55 · 2 answers · asked by frogbfound 4

I am a 14 year old guy... and I am very close with a friend who many of our inner circle to be anorexic. At lunch, she does not eat anything, and she constantly tells us how at home she also does not eat much, if anything at all.

However, the real problem is this: one of us refuses to believe that this girl is anorexic. Recently, five of us went to our guidance counselor and put forward the issue that we are worried about our friend, the anorexic. However, we did not include the girl that refuses to believe our friend is anorexic, because she is too immature to understand what is really going on.

Now, the friend that denies our other friend has an eating disorder is outraged that we did not include her, and she also is angry that we would "go behind (the girl who has an eating disorder)'s back."

To make matters worse, the girl who denies our friend has an eating disorder is also my ex-girlfriend (we just broke up recently), and she has also suffered from bulimia.

Can anyone help?

2007-01-26 09:17:33 · 18 answers · asked by benjymg92london 1