my best friend has to other best friends but it seems like she is tring to replace me .what 2 do?

Answer 1

why do you think that i shappening????best friends are together till the end. if she does that that means that u were never her best friend. and you have something that cant be replaced. talk to her and get what she wants or try and clear up whats going on and what she wants to do. dont make assumptions because you might end up getting in trouble with your friend over nothing. try and see things clearly.

Answer 2

Maybe your best friend has outgrown your relationship. But here's some questions only you can answer. Are you included, sometimes people like to be a small or slightly larger groups of "best friends"? Does she have best friend for each activity that interests her? Not everyone likes to do the samething each and every time. Are there more activities that she does or shares with these other best friends that does not include you? If yes to all or some, maybe consider that you need to widen your circle of friends and find another best friend. Good luck to you, good friends are like gold (very hard to find:)

Answer 3

Dont worry about it. I felt like that once with my best friend, but now her and her other best friend hardly ever talk. She would never try to replace you, but I know how you feel.
Try seeing if they want to have a get-together, with all 3 of you,like a day at the mall or something.
If you guys are really best friends, you can tell eachother anything right? So just tell her how you feel.

Answer 4

I never get how people can have more than one best friend. One of the friends would have to be of lesser value to a person than the other(s) right? Best normally refers to a singular noun (ex. This pizza is the best, NOT every pizza is the best.).

Answer: If she is trying to replace you then that would mean that you are no longer her best friend but that she is your best friend maybe. People often change best friends as often as people change underwear (hopefully; which should be often).

Best friends normally change when someone moves. I would suggest talking with your best friend and ask her who her best friend is.

You are looking for a best friends relationship which your friend may not want with you, or maybe she does I wouldn't know, she isn't my friend). So just talk with her.

Answer 5

If she replaces u too bad for her, she has lost u. But i doubt she is trying to do that. If u two are best friend she should that someone like u is hard to come about.

Answer 6

its sucks to be replaced. dont show that youre getting mad about it, just point out u r best friends and u should be spending more time with each other than other people

Answer 7

Ask her why she is always trying to replace you if your her best friend.

Answer 8

Replace her before your the one whos replaced. Remember kid, 'the last one ends up losing' let her be the last one by showing of that you don't need her.

Answer 9

its the same with me and my best friend..she had 2 others and it felt lik sometimes she was replacing me....dont worry about it..shes not...sometimes when ur with a person for so long you just want 2 be around others for a while...shes not trying to hurt you... just trying to c wat it is lik to be around other people...if it gets to a point where u feel ur not even close anemore then talk but if u do it now she might think that u are trying to keep her to urself

Answer 10

Hmm, sounds like you feel this is a "best" best friend, but the feeling is not mutual. Time to find yourself some other best friends too!