Two of my good friends constantly argue and bicker and their relationship is on the rocks. I always find myself in the middle of it and I just want them to get along. What should I do?
2007-01-26 09:48:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them individually that you want to see their friendship survive but that you don't want to be caught in the middle of the quarrels. They need to solve these issues themselves.
2007-01-26 10:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything cuz you may make matters worse, you have to let nature take its course. Because maybe they are not meant to be friends anymore, and you cant force something if it doesnt work out. If you try and fix it and you do, it'll still come back to them in the long run so it would've mattered what you did cuz it happened anyways. So STAY OUT OF IT, let THEM figure it out, they might break up temporarily, then realize it was stupid and be back friends again Lol. Ok???
2007-01-26 17:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back....allow your two closests friends to work out their differences...If they're always in each others face., arguing, bickering......YOU standing in the middle trying to reason with either one of them is a waste of your time and breath. I'm sure you've had this convo with both of them many times. My best advice to you right now...is when they start again.....Walk away* leave them both standing there to deal* with it* GoodLUcK
2007-01-26 17:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't keep them from breaking up. I'd let them both know (separately) that the fighting and bickering is making you uncomfortable and you are going to have to excuse yourself when they get into it. And then do it - if you're all together and they start in on each other, excuse yourself and go do something else.
2007-01-26 17:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by lurkingonthirtyfourthstreet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. If you get involved you may lose both friends.
Sometimes friendships should stop between two people who don't get along well together. What you want is not as important as what they want in this situation.
2007-01-26 18:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really do anything. it's childish of both of them to fight for whatever reason. why are they even friends if they bicker and fight? first of all you don't want to take sides. if one of them tell you to choose to be their friends don't choose either, stay out of it, because you'll lose both badly. now if you do stay out of their fights you better talk to both of them and actually face to face. then bring in both friends and make them talk. or you could just let them fight, until their friendship stops, then they'll both experience what it feels like to lose a friend and might make up. it this doesn't work then maybe they're just never gonna be good friends
2007-01-26 17:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nocturne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not advice its a plan..... ok here it is first thing when ever they start to argue or what ever this is what you do say: u guys allways have to fight then make a mad face and sit down anyspot at least 10 feet away they will com to u and both will agree on making an effort to stop fighting trust me ..people don't just pay me daily for plans like theese if it did work wich probably will send me a message to texasdetroitkool@yahoo.com
2007-01-26 17:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by 2$hort 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, or out of the way! One thing worse than having one of your friends turning on you is both of them doing so! Let time take its course and I'm sure your friends will work things out.
2007-01-26 17:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly stay the hell out of it.. otherwise you are just gonna find yerself on the recieving end of neither of them want anything to do with you anymore either...
2007-01-26 17:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, your presence is only adding fuel to their fire. Leave them alone and they will come home.
Remember this when you are old enough to marry.
Do not run home and tell your family anything bad about your spouse.
Your marriage will last longer if you do.
2007-01-26 17:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋