Friends - September 2006

Im asian, and i have a beautiful body,(as i was told many times) walking with my boyfreind to the park or any where has become a bad thing, i just dont know what to do to prevent this! I where skirts alot so I tryed covering my self, that doesent work, my hair passes my butt so I try to bunn it, that also dosent work! What will? My boyfriend is Emo, also he suspects I talk to these UNKNOWN boys n girls when im walking alone...

2006-09-01 06:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

People always judge me before they even know my name. One look and they think im this big bully, Being fat does'nt mean that im going to be a cruel person. I have feelings too, and it hurts to see the same look on everyones face. I have a hard time dealing with the fact that i had to move highschools in my junoir year, especially having to leave all my friends.. I just want a way to let people see the real me, the one thats not what they think and not what they know... please!

2006-09-01 05:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by guitar = my life 1

I don't understand why I have trouble finding "real" friends. I've just been let down by my so called friends. I mean I'm not the type of person that just meets someone once and just starts saying "We're best friends now!" These people I've known since childhood. I lost 3 close friends when I became engaged. To make a long story short, it came down to them asking me to chose between them or my fiancee. Obviously I chose my fiancee because my "friends" showed their jealousy. Then it came to the actual wedding day. I invited about 7 "friends" including my best friend of 20 years. I got confirmations from them all. Only 1 showed up. And it wasnt my best friend of 20 years by the way. That was 2 mths ago.I havent heard a thing from anyone. My Grandmother passed away last month. Everyone knew about it. But yet no phone calls, no cards, emails, Nothing!!! I don't trust people outside of my family anymore. Am I wrong or should I try to make new friends? What's the point of having them?

2006-09-01 05:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Me 2

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 mos now. We are in highschool. Altho he doesn't demand to hang out often, I want to take a break and focus more in my studies. My goal this year and forward is to get at least 3.75 - 4.0 average. I don't want to fail the expectation of my parents. So, how should I tell my BF without hurting him. It will be hard for me to take it too, but I have to set my priorities. Any suggestion on how to handle this situation. Thank you.

2006-09-01 05:48:33 · 16 answers · asked by Ajie F 1

This woman (Lucy) kissed my boyfriend about 9 months ago, everything between them has ended and me and my bf are still close. Me and Lucy were talking online and we got on really well after we put our feelings out in the open. Shes a really nice girl. She wants to hang out next friday..should I? and how will this decision affect my boyfriend?

2006-09-01 05:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by moomoo 2

I'm usually pretty good but sometimes I am completely wrong. How is yours working?

2006-09-01 05:39:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 05:30:01 · 1 answers · asked by shallu 1

2006-09-01 05:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by m & m 1

Ok so my best friend is really great, and we have an awesome relationship. i have just recently realized/admited to my feelings for him. i dont know what i should do. i really dont want to do anything that could ruin our friendship, and i am one of those ppl that has a really problem taking the first step. should i just see if i can wait this crush out? this isnt a new thing for me... two years ago i feel for another really good friend and just recently got over him... so this could go on for awhile...

2006-09-01 05:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think its over, but she don't think so. She loves me nad I don't want to hurt her.
What should I do?
How can I make her not to love me ?

2006-09-01 05:09:37 · 27 answers · asked by Iraj 3

2006-09-01 05:02:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 04:59:01 · 17 answers · asked by sherna 1

i have 2 best friends we've been friends since middle school and one is gay and he is very open about it and i have no problem with it you know im like ya hes hot we check out guys together in the mall and we have a blast. but my other friend gets imbaresed and is real mean to him callin him a queer and we thought she was jokin at first but she says it in a real mean way and when he gets excited and you know squeels her somethin ( which is the funniest thnig) she puts her hand up so know one can see her.
we were in the mall the other day and she was bein extra mean and like i dont want to be seen withyou if your gonna act gay and he was like" this isnt an act" then he started yellin out im gay and proud of it. ya know i was so proud of him but then she shoved himand left and we havnt talked neither me or my gay friend has talked to her for 3 days. should we talk to her or say we cant be friends with her if she cant except him?

2006-09-01 04:54:59 · 8 answers · asked by rooney8dabom 2

The world just seems to be spinning out of control.If you can share a smile or a minute for someone,at least we would all be doing something positive.

2006-09-01 04:52:37 · 37 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-09-01 04:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by trulords 1

and sure you know where your going?

2006-09-01 04:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

I have 2 close friends - one is super demanding with very arguable to her utmost rights who expects everything to be told to her; while another is rather sweet but very selfish. I want to maintain this friendship but very hard. I feel the pressure each time we meet and it seems everything has changed since we've grown older. The first one demands the most, and i've never seen anyone as demanding as her. She always claims that im her best friend. Are friends supposed to be like this? Serious answers please. Thanks.

2006-09-01 04:46:35 · 22 answers · asked by Springboard 2

Youve lived your life by it,its always been there.

2006-09-01 04:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

have a friend like much and would like to help. She's divorced, has a lovely 12 yo daughter that lives with her. Her husband lives w/ another woman and the problem is the girls likes a lot her dad's partner. This makes my friend mad. She says the girl behaves better when at her dads house. Sometimes she has to ground the girl, but when she does something wrong at her dad's house, his partner just says, Hun, this was not right, I'll explain why, and the girl listens and obeys. The girl spent the last Saturday at father's house and his partner took the girl went to a lingerie store to get her first bra. When she came back, her mom, almost had a nervous break down, threw a bad tantrum over her girl first bra: You betrayed me, you're a nasty daughter, cause of that ***** you deprived me of such important moment for a mom, etc She destroyed one of the bras and locked the girl in her room for the whole Sunday. The girl is feeling guilty, is depressed and wants to leave my friend.

2006-09-01 04:41:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do I get the feeling boob envy is like penis envy. "Hello? My face is up here." Are bruntettes jealous of blondes also?

2006-09-01 04:38:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 04:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

i have a friend who calls me only if she wants money or she wants me to do something for her. I'm a student in a foreign country so it's difficult for me to lend her so much money. she never returns the money that she has lent. yesterday and today she keeps on calling and asking me to lend her money. i don't know what to do. i'm a bit shy i can't tell her directly that i can't lend her money anymore because she won't return it. and also in the university that we are studying in, she is known as a whore. all her freinds have left her and no one wants to communicate with her. but i can't tell her that i don't want to communicate with her too, my shyness is my biggest problem. i can't tell her.

can you help me? what should i do?

2006-09-01 04:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by tina a 1

2006-09-01 04:28:26 · 4 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1

I got this friend, we were friends ever since 9th grade. as soon as 10th grade came,in da begining, we were still friends (just not as close). Durring the middle and end we argued alot. Most of it had to do with the way she was acting.
her sister started attending that school and she got a new boyfriend. Now i didn't have a problem with any of dat till she started acting like they were her only priority, like i was never in the pic.
After dat we were friends on and off.
Finally she got me mad. we were chattin 1 day and she said that her boyfriend had made her cry acussing her of being a gold digger n only wanting him for his money. I consoled her n made her feel better.
like about 2 days after dat i saw them 2 together. I was angery and confused.
when i tried to ask her, she was actually defending HER boyfriend.dats wen i decided i wasn't gonna talk 2 her n-e more. I tried giving her another chance; she took it as a joke
now she wants 2 b friends. wat should i do??

2006-09-01 04:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by jade101 2

I have a classmate which is... how can I say this, 28% gay and 72% cutie. I think he's gay cause he likes to get along with girls than my male classmates. I really like him cause he has a cute smile, very polite, very funny... yah know, like a gentleman. Take note please: he likes to get along with girls like exchanging secrets and stuff not the other side. Please give me advice if I should avoid him or not. Thanks-a-lot

2006-09-01 04:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i started being friends with this dude he was my only friend so my playstation2 broke and he fixed it and he would not give it back then his friend started calling me gay and he took his side when i was over at his house they started shooting bb,s at me and shooting fireworks and i finally got in my truck and left so he called me the next day and i would not talk to him so my friend and his friend came to my house they called me and told me they were going to hurt me and they had guns so i called the cops and they told them that they were trying to apologize and i feel bad now cause i havent talked to him in 3 months now and i have no friends i feel like it is my fault what should i do

2006-09-01 04:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend always make bad things. She know that we will not be caught by the principal, but I know she is the only one. If you were me ,would you do the same as your nasty friend?

2006-09-01 04:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by sheenacute 1

When to pass gas in a relationship. I say years in my coworker (of course he's a man)says right after dinner. Please people lets keep it real.

2006-09-01 04:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by prizelady88 4

2006-09-01 04:05:23 · 1 answers · asked by bruneta 1

My friend come to visit me but when it get later and me and my husband be tired and ready to go to bed. She don't want to leave she just want to listen to music or watch t.v. I think she don't understand the signals when it's time to go home . How do i get her to leave

2006-09-01 03:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1