Im asian, and i have a beautiful body,(as i was told many times) walking with my boyfreind to the park or any where has become a bad thing, i just dont know what to do to prevent this! I where skirts alot so I tryed covering my self, that doesent work, my hair passes my butt so I try to bunn it, that also dosent work! What will? My boyfriend is Emo, also he suspects I talk to these UNKNOWN boys n girls when im walking alone...
2006-09-01 06:07:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honey, that type of thing is serious. i mean what if he starts assuming ur cheating on him and it puts you in an abusive relationship? you either need to tell him to back off or you need to get help from a friend or family member. someone you can trust. i think this sounds like the beginning of a controlling relationship which will evenually lead to an abusive relationship. reassure him that no one can take his place in your heart and that you love only him. tell him that no matter what people say about you their opinions aren't important. then all you have to do is talk to him about how you feel he doesn't trust you because i take it he's insecure in the relationship and that's not good. good luck and god bless!
2006-09-01 07:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you know that you're not doing anything wrong ,then don't worry about it because the more stressed out you seem in front of him the more he's going to believe that you are cheating on him. He has to learn how to trust you. Trust, respect and communication is part of a relationship. Don't let him put you down. Nobody deserves it.
2006-09-08 18:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to them, be sure to let them know that you've got a boyfriend, and you're not willing to give that up. Don't be rude. Just rest your head on your boyfriends shoulder and snuggle with him while you're talking to these people. It'll make your boyfriend know you still love him, and these people will know you're serious. If they keep bothering you, then tell them to leave you alone in a serious and confident manner.
2006-09-08 16:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can ask is.....Do you have a big brother or cousin?.....talk to them about this behaviour, then tell your bf to knock it off, because you are'nt gonna be controlled like that.
It's going to get worse if you don't stop it now....If he blames you, he may hurt you later... I know...Been there, done that.
What he should be doing is wrapping his arm around you with pride, and a big smile, knowing you're his, not theirs.
He has issues..
2006-09-07 08:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT EQUATE JEALOUSY WITH LOVE!
If he continues to act this way and tries to control you, it's time to say goodbye. Jealousy is a big sign of insecurity-his. Find some one more worthy of you , who will trust and accept you as you are, not as how he wants you to be and act.
Good luck
2006-09-08 17:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by conetoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are on this earth for him only and just remind him that what they want, he has. So he should be taking pride in the fact that everyone wants what is his.
I mean if you are insecure you can't date the beautiful
2006-09-01 08:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u poor beautiful thing u r struck on yourself and u probably give them a reason 2 flirt with u or u think u r drop dead beautiful
2006-09-06 14:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so cute, I cant help even thinking about you right now.
I feel sorry for your bf, he is gonna age faster than the rest of us.
2006-09-06 12:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kamran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't be easier to just dump Emo?
2006-09-09 04:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by clear_skyzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really just tell him he has to trust you. I f he can't do that, then you need to break up. No relationship lasts without trust.
2006-09-08 14:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by ladeda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋