okay so i started being friends with this dude he was my only friend so my playstation2 broke and he fixed it and he would not give it back then his friend started calling me gay and he took his side when i was over at his house they started shooting bb,s at me and shooting fireworks and i finally got in my truck and left so he called me the next day and i would not talk to him so my friend and his friend came to my house they called me and told me they were going to hurt me and they had guns so i called the cops and they told them that they were trying to apologize and i feel bad now cause i havent talked to him in 3 months now and i have no friends i feel like it is my fault what should i do
2006-09-01 04:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If everything you said here is true, you are not at fault. The decent thing to do would have been to have offered to pay your friend money for fixing your play station. Is this why he kept your playstation - did he feel the need to be compensated? Nevertheless, he was totally out of line for stealing it. This person is not your friend.
First off, get restraining orders on these guys. Second, make a police report about the theft of your property and take him to small claims court.
You need to get out of the house more and start making new friends. Join a sports team, volunteer at a charity, sign up for a community event, help out in your church, join a book club - what ever it is. Put your self out there and meet good people. Relationships aren't built in a split second. They take time. But if you keep putting your self out there among good people and you act like a friend - you will get friends. I can't begin to tell you how much of a difference in my social life volunteering has done for me. I live in a suburban area far from the center of town where you need a car to go everywhere. But through volunteering at food bank and a few other organizations I was able to build a network. It took a few months, but it worked. Also, because I like martial arts I have my martial arts friends. Because I like music I have my music friends. I'm not the kind of person that can walk in to a bar and automatically become every-ones friend by the end of the night.
I'd like to leave you with a good poem on friendship:
http://www.columbia.edu/~gm84/gibran19.html
2006-09-01 04:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What EXACTLY do you think YOU did wrong?
They sound like a couple of creeps. Stay away from them. Did you tell the cops about them bb-ing you? You should have and you should have shown them the marks so they could teach those 2 fools a lesson.
Those are not friends of yours. I wouldn't miss them. Join a sport, get involved in church groups if that's your thing, ANYTHING to get better buddies than those two.
2006-09-01 04:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my.. i feel for you..idk what i would do ..i would probably just go to a neighbors house. but still you called the police..now..there nothing wrong with that..but why is no one else your friends? its not like you called the cops on everyone..don't worry about it..try to make friends anyways go up and ask if you can call them later to hang out or something...not even girls will be your friends? i'm sure there is someone out there that would be gald to be your friend..you just got to ask. they might be scared of you or soemthing lol. hope it works for ya <3 Laura..and don't worry i have been in a no friend situation before..and i am only 14
2006-09-01 04:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u crazy, that can't be your fault it is your game so u r to get it back, he only fixed the thing so u should get it back and i don't wrong u for calling the cop's, they made a threat to u and u did whats right, if i were u i would go back for my PS2.
2006-09-01 04:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Get over it. Move on. They were never your friends in the first place. What kind of friends shoot BB's at you? Get a hobby and move on!
2006-09-01 04:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THOSE PEOPLE WERE NEVER YOUR TRUE FRIENDS TO BEGIN WITH. firned wouldn't threaten you or oyur life.
i' sure there is someone out there that will appreciate you for who you are and not try to judge you or hurt just cuz u wanted your stuff fixed
2006-09-01 04:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by jade101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find better friends you don't need the drama of as'holes like that, they weren't trying to appologize and have your parents or the cops get your PS2 back.
2006-09-01 04:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...tiz not your fault...its theirs...you didn't do anything wrong...and you call those friends?! if they are friends they'd never do those things to you...there are still a lot of better and nicer people out there you can meet and become your friends... get over it, ok? :)
2006-09-01 04:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by aNiX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes, you have big issues. how is them telling you they are going to shoot you, apologizing?? HELLO! if you are for real, wow. you need new friends. stop talking to them. and stop giving people your video game equipment.
2006-09-01 04:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call that friends I would hate to see your enemies.
2006-09-01 04:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋