Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

I ask as I would like others view on thier experiences. Did your partner have times of being perfectly charming and you thought that it would be fine then he would change? did it extend to other areas of your life such as control over your time and friends so on? did you not realise that you where involved in this situation until it gradually dawned on you? I was never hit, but pushed and controlled and threatened with violence and called names at times.This started 2 years into my 4 year relationshipDid others tell you like they did me but you just did not see how dangerous he was

2007-02-09 01:21:09 · 21 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets start when I was 2 years old, laying in the crib with one of those brace things that they used to put on your feet if you were pidgeon toed. I couldn't very well climb out of the crib with the brace on my feet and all so i would lay there in the crib what seemed like for hours and bang my feet up agains the crib so that horrible woman who called herself my mother would come and let me out of that damn crib. I may have only been 2, but I knew then that i wanted to experience life and explore things beyond the 4 X 4 jail cell that I was trapped in. So I ask you, if that damn woman that called herself my mother went to the trouble of kidnapping me..."why did she kidnap me?"

2007-02-09 01:20:54 · 11 answers · asked by ltec27 1 in Family

2007-02-09 01:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by archita 1 in Friends

I am 46 years old and have met my soul mate. I am going to remarry and would like to marry on Valentines Day this year.
My problem is that my (will be18 years old next month) daughter doesn't want to move out of town with us. (45 min away from where we now live).
Should I go ahead and marry and make her go with me? OR should I let her live with her father?

2007-02-09 01:19:39 · 20 answers · asked by wwjd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do, I love this guy & we broke up after 4 years months. Our relationship was volitile & breakups were regular. He wants me to change, be accepting of what he does. Mate/football then me coming home drunk & pee all over my bathroom, not nagging. He 34 has no ambition except saving for austraila & running back to mummies when he doesnt like living with me. Its been over a month no contact & he left hating me & leaving me feel so bad I thought my life was over what was the point of living I was bad. I have always chased him & asked him to come back & saying I will change & seek help for me being the nuttier
. I am a really nice person but if people keep pushing the boundries your going to snap. He also is a bit to familar with other women in front of me, if I say something thats my sick head in play so I keep quiet but then it builds inside & one day I exploded. What I want to know is he coming back do you think in the future to ask me back, cause this time I want to say NO

2007-02-09 01:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Doormat29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It can be used as a defense in divorce proceedings.

2007-02-09 01:19:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I be humorous to the girl I like as girls like humourous guys?

2007-02-09 01:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by alak s 1 in Friends

What do you do, I love this guy & we broke up after 4 years months. Our relationship was volitile & breakups were regular. He wants me to change, be accepting of what he does. Mate/football then me coming home drunk & pee all over my bathroom, not nagging. He 34 has no ambition except saving for austraila & running back to mummies when he doesnt like living with me. Its been over a month no contact & he left hating me & leaving me feel so bad I thought my life was over what was the point of living I was bad. I have always chased him & asked him to come back & saying I will change & seek help for me being the nuttier
. I am a really nice person but if people keep pushing the boundries your going to snap. He also is a bit to familar with other women in front of me, if I say something thats my sick head in play so I keep quiet but then it builds inside & one day I exploded. What I want to know is he coming back do you think in the future to ask me back, cause this time I want to say NO

2007-02-09 01:18:08 · 3 answers · asked by Doormat29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend of 20 odd years just screwed around behind my back with my girlfriend. I was woundering one day why dhe has not returned any of my phone calls. so my gut felling told me togo to a motel we used to go to alot one night cause I dtarted getting really deppressed. I guessed right her car was there.It was about 10:00p.m. but I still did not no what room and with who. So I had waited till the next moreing in the parking lot next door this was a 24 keno's resurant .at about 9:30am someone stared unlocking the door to come out of one of the rooms it was her by herself . I was releave yet embarresed. yet I could not let her see me. but 5 minutes later when I looked in the direction of where her car was parked to my surprise I saw my bet friend who I had grew up with loading her car with towels. I jumped out my truck and yelled his name out load . he turn saw me and then turned away and said 'oh my f**kin god, no way'and ran back to where the room was. I did not no how to react..

2007-02-09 01:18:06 · 4 answers · asked by rollin1530 1 in Friends

my girlfriend is still friends with her ex. he always texts her and calls her. honestly, it ticks me off but i dont want to be the jealous boyfriend so i dont say anything. so my question is can you still be friends with your ex with no romantic feelings lingering? or should i be concerned?

2007-02-09 01:17:51 · 17 answers · asked by pitbulldawgz82 2 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend does not want anything in our place that reminds me of another guy. Do you think I should toss all my stuff to make him happy?

2007-02-09 01:17:40 · 13 answers · asked by ChikaSexy 1 in Singles & Dating

by short i mean 4"10' to 5"4'.........just curious!!!!

2007-02-09 01:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by ~angel under cover~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:16:32 · 3 answers · asked by eto 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Never bothered giving girlfriend his home phone number.Only his cell phone number.Is this considered to be normal?Tell me what do you think about this.

2007-02-09 01:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i never really thought of valentine's day . to me it was just a normal day. well being single and all , i just enjoyed it. and never thought of valentine's day. but lately i been thinking about valentine's day. and cannot seem to get it out of my head, and worst part i send a card to lady, i really love. now i am biting my finger nails wondering if she like the card. ohh will she she be my valentine.?

2007-02-09 01:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by landslyde1782 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf live far apart but we love each other soo much! our only way of communication is the phone! Well he is getting a bad grade and he is gonna be grounded from the phone for a month! He only goes to his moms everyother weekend! I dont want to have a 2 week relationship! i really love him and dont wanna brake up! plzz help!!

2007-02-09 01:15:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when boys are commited to a girl they just want her and can do anything to get her marry but girls can leave them for any stupid reason like [ my parent wont allow, my carrer, u dont care me (jaan nikal kar de de tab bhi u dont care me) etc] but boys really suffer once they love a girl they cant easily forget her... but but guys these girls can adapt to changes this is nature/'s biggest gift to them, these girls can cry from inside but they wont let others knw about it!!! guys there are very less chances you will endup with marry with ur love and at last boy end up with drinking, smoking etc. and girl lives a levish life with her huband/boy friend.
guys never fall in love its better fall from hill rather falling in love!!!

2007-02-09 01:15:07 · 5 answers · asked by singleman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a warm and friendly guy and I do love him. What I'm uncomfortable about is his relationships with certain female friends (whom I've never met). They spend so much time on the phone & they confide in him a lot. What hurt me is that I found out he transferred cash to one just weeks before our wedding and has been communicating with her since. He lied about the whole thing until I confronted him with evidence. He told the truth and now is angry and withdrawn. How do I break this cycle, what do I do?

2007-02-09 01:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by sweetginger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 01:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:14:15 · 18 answers · asked by you are my angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 01:13:32 · 13 answers · asked by swami_nath01 1 in Friends

I have developed a love for Chinese..food, design etc... But most of all for Chinese women... I just find them so beautiful and charming.. And I have this burning fantasy to make love to a Chinese women.. But here is where the problem lies.. I am already in love to the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with... And over the past 5 years I have never cheated and never will... But I cant help the feelings I have for Chinese that are all around me... I know what you may be thinking... Just have sex with a chinese girl... It's a tricky one...

2007-02-09 01:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like him, but i am not sure. Any opinions?

2007-02-09 01:12:03 · 23 answers · asked by chardonnayormerlot 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy asked me out and i said yes.But the only problem is tht my boyfriends older sister is my brothers boyfriend!!!!!My brother knows i like him but he doesnt know that were going out.He said tht if he did him and his older sis are gunna get married so i would be dating my brother in law.But there only teenagers so they are DEF. not ready for marrage.but wat should i do when my brother DOES find out cuz i really like the boy:[

2007-02-09 01:11:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his friends always talk about it

2007-02-09 01:10:45 · 6 answers · asked by Varsity girl!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

they just got out of a 4 year marraige. but i dont want to scare off. so should i not ask them out? or do something suttle for Vday? how do do this gently and slowly so i do scare them off? But let them know i do like them and would like to take her out?

2007-02-09 01:10:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems all we do is watch tv, have sex, and go to bed. We don't live together and durring the week we only see each other twice a week. What are somethings we can do to grow our releationship besides that. I love my fiance and we do spend a lot of time together, I just want to make sure it's high quality time.

2007-02-09 01:10:05 · 25 answers · asked by tannedknight45 5 in Marriage & Divorce