What do you do, I love this guy & we broke up after 4 years months. Our relationship was volitile & breakups were regular. He wants me to change, be accepting of what he does. Mate/football then me coming home drunk & pee all over my bathroom, not nagging. He 34 has no ambition except saving for austraila & running back to mummies when he doesnt like living with me. Its been over a month no contact & he left hating me & leaving me feel so bad I thought my life was over what was the point of living I was bad. I have always chased him & asked him to come back & saying I will change & seek help for me being the nuttier
. I am a really nice person but if people keep pushing the boundries your going to snap. He also is a bit to familar with other women in front of me, if I say something thats my sick head in play so I keep quiet but then it builds inside & one day I exploded. What I want to know is he coming back do you think in the future to ask me back, cause this time I want to say NO
2007-02-09 01:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Doormat29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes he will chase to get you back. But after reading this and if you take him back you have some serious issues yourself. He thinks he can treat you any way he wants and even though you breakup he thinks you do not mean it. It sounds like you just can't stand being alone and so thats why you keep up this relationship. Believe me someone else out there will treat you the way you should be treated. I do not know if this is love or depend.
2007-02-09 02:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by KAREBEAR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, you love him. You had bad breakups on a regular basic (this is not normal), he has tried to change you, he comes home drunk & pee's on the floor, and is a 34 yr old with no goals. Honey, love yourself a little. No woman with any self respect would stop and tell him what time of day it was. You might love being with someone but move on. If you really were over him you would not be looking for him to ask you back. I think you might want to figure out why you are attracted to abusive men.
2007-02-09 02:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it that this story sounds all to familiar? because I was the one who always had to aplogize, I was the one who was always rong. I got sick and tired of it and realized there was better out there for me. He sounds like a blamer who is more then likely going to come crawling back to you so you have to be strong and not awnser your phone or change your number and dont awnser your door and let him know this time you are both done. He sounds like a jerk and NOTHING is ever just one persons fault.
2007-02-09 03:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, this is a dysfunctional relationsip. he has commitment issues, and peopoe do not get into relationships where they have to change someone.
2007-02-09 02:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your having problems with this man and your not married to him if he's that bad why don't you get some one esle and get him out of your life
2007-02-09 01:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋