when boys are commited to a girl they just want her and can do anything to get her marry but girls can leave them for any stupid reason like [ my parent wont allow, my carrer, u dont care me (jaan nikal kar de de tab bhi u dont care me) etc] but boys really suffer once they love a girl they cant easily forget her... but but guys these girls can adapt to changes this is nature/'s biggest gift to them, these girls can cry from inside but they wont let others knw about it!!! guys there are very less chances you will endup with marry with ur love and at last boy end up with drinking, smoking etc. and girl lives a levish life with her huband/boy friend.
guys never fall in love its better fall from hill rather falling in love!!!
2007-02-09 01:15:07 · 5 answers · asked by singleman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well freind, what u ahve said is right. after a relationship of more than one year, it will not be easy for a boy to forget the girl . but do u know one thing? even after 100 years it will be difficult for a girl to forget her ex love. believe me, i am one such girl. my bf told me that he had got a chance to move abroad and will come back after 5 years and his mother wants him to get married to a girl who is more beautiful than me etc. and he did leave me. have u noticed one thing. all most all the excuses u said would be given by girls have infact come from my bf too( in my case). though i am glad that i managed to get out of it, it still hurts sometimes. and i think it will hurt me forevertoo ( though i know it is wrong to brood over that). but npw i am tring hard to get out of it.
2007-02-09 01:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mate with girls they can cry, and so when they cry they let out the anguish and then start out their life from scratch. But for a man, being a man he can't cry and so he keeps it in his heart and when he trys to keep it in his heart he thinks about it over and over again and so trys to anguish it by drinking alcohol, smoking and all that, where as the girl has already forgotten u and already has the next guy lined up. Why do u need to take this. Why don't u just delete her from ur mind and move on. There is always a person who is destined for u and she will come to u at the right time. SO forget about it and get on with ur life.
But remeber this not every girl is of this type as well. There are some girls who are fully and by it I mean fully into the guy as well. And when the guy leaves her she also has a certain feeling in her heart and she is also in anguish. U guys try and forget it as well and move on. Like I said there is always someone who is destined for u and they will come to u at the right time.
2007-02-09 01:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wat i do is just go and move on and find a different boyfriend and thats how i get over it when a guy brakes up with me but if a guy breaks up with a gurl and you really love this gurl then i say go for it dont let her run off like that tell her how you feel.
2007-02-09 01:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Amber N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard. i couldnt get over her so i tried to force the relationship, all i did was push her away. then one day i said to myself forget her. never call her again. then she started calling me. i ignored her. then she started calling nonstop leaving voicemails, crying begging me to answer my phone. it switched. we changed positions. then i realized how much i loved her and we have been together doing very well so far
2007-02-09 01:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is difficult... find another girl and u will feel stupid that u cried for the other one... gd luck
2007-02-09 02:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋