Ive been married 3 years I love my husband so much are life is great . The only thing we fight about is his daughter 9 and his mother who has pretty much raised her since 6 months of age. I have two daughters from my first marrage 8 & 5. We have a baby together age2. From the start the 9 year old and I did not bond. I tired very hard but gave up a few months ago. Also the 9 & 8 year olds hate each other.The 9 year old has gone to stay with her grandmother am not sure if she will stay for good or not. My in-law from day one will not talk things out with me about this little girl. My husband treats me like this is all my fault and am a horrable person. I do feel awful but I just can't bond with her, I have been trying for 3 years. We did go see a counclor who said everyone would open up and enjoy our new family , that was two years ago. I have tried one on one with the 9 year old going places. doing things, talking. But she reverts back to her grandmother also her real mom is not around.
2006-09-19
14:37:34
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Jess
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