I love guys but for some reason they dont treat me right at all. It was starting me make me feel like I was ugly.So I stopped talking to guys and started talking to girls. But some reason I cant find anyone to date at all. Now it seems like I am going to be alone again this year last year I wasnt in a relationship at all and I never had anybody get me anything for v-day either. Will someone please help me I am feeling like nothing right now.
2006-09-19 14:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are just lonely & confused. Take time to sort out what you are looking for. And, do something nice for yourself. Once you are more comfortable with who you are, you will gravitate toward the kind of person you need. It will happen.
2006-09-19 14:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling lonely and unloved, so it's time to make a change. Don't judge all guys by the ones who have disappointed you. There are lots of nice men who would like to meet a sweet girl. You just haven't found the right one yet. You say you like girls. Does that mean that you have gay tendencies? It's okay to have girlfriends, or even be a lesbian. However, people who are gay are born that way. They don't decide to become gay just because they can't find someone of the opposite sex.
I think your main problem is that you don't like yourself right now, so you need to develop self-confidence. You are better than you think you are. Keep reinforcing that idea, and soon you'll start to believe it. You have to love yourself before you can love others. Maybe you'd benefit by talking to a counselor. Get involved in something you really enjoy, like a hobby or pastime. Join a club or participate in group activities. Keep an open mind and try to make some friends. Life is a constantly changing thing. Each new day offers a new challenge. Try to be optimistic and find delight in little things. Good luck, dear. It will get better. Oh, and happy birthday!
2006-09-19 21:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of work to do. Learn to love yourself first. God made you as you are for a reason. Accept that. He didn't make you lesbian though. Adam and Eve were one man and one woman. That was also His intention. Get a Bible and read it. Read some Joyce Meyer books and learn about yourself through doing these things. You don't sound prepared for a relationship yet. Work on the things I mentioned and pray that a companion (preferably male) will come to you. Believe it will happen, wait patiently and He will deliver. All of us guys aren't jerks. Many maybe and in your age group many are so young and immature. They don't realize how their insensitivity can hurt others. Forgive them and don't hold their transgressions against all other males, please.
2006-09-19 21:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by TN Seeker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would forget a relationship with any one.right now. I don't think you really know what you like or want. Not all guys are going to treat you the same way, there will be one that is right for you and that will treat you the way you should be treated.You will be ok till the right one comes along I can guarantee it.
2006-09-19 21:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by ky gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic quite yet. Place yourself in position to find guys other than bars. The best bet is sort the good guys from the bad. How? Develop standards and insist on them, require that they respect and honor you and your needs and desires, go slowly to develop relationships, and search for deal breakers very carefully. You'll do well. Here's a web site that might help: http://www.boundless.org/2002_2003/departments/beyond_buddies/a0000796.html
2006-09-19 21:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be certain and truthful about your sexuality and confident about who you are. What you should do is work on you. Sounds like a makover would help. Mirror someone you admire. Change your hair, clothes and spots you hangout. Try doing activities that would surround with the circle or class of people you would enjoy doing activities with. Let me know how you make out.
2006-09-19 22:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Demisum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sexual preference is out of whack. i don't even think you know which way your orientation is. before you find the right person, you have to BE the right person. start looking in instead of out. if you think your happiness is contingent on someone else making you happy, you are going to be a sad lady the rest of your life.
2006-09-19 21:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start dressing better, wear make up, flirt and STOP acting like you are the best looking chick in the group...
2006-09-19 21:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ordinary man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its Adam and Eve not Ashely and Eve.
2006-09-19 21:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by JesusFreak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put an ad on craigslist.com
2006-09-19 21:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋