My boyfriend would rather just have sex with me than really BE with me. In other words, any time we have sex, it is purely for the act itself it feels like and I feel as though he feels nothing.
In other words, when he kisses me or touches me, I feel as though it is empty, because there is no warmth beneath his touch.
Do you know what I mean?
He blamed me for the decline in our sex life by saying that I am responsible for the fact things went downhill when I stopped letting him just roll me over in the mornings.
I stopped letting him do that because I felt like a damn hooker and I got tired of it.
There is no real intimacy in anything he does with me sexually.
Even in his kisses.
It all feels forced, in an effort to do what he thinks I want him to do when in fact, sexual intimacy has nothing to do with sex and he can't seem to understand that.
What is the deal?
2006-09-15
17:10:08
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Brownie
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