k well theres this girl that i am totally in love with,and ive told her that but she didnt really respond to what i said.this was about a month and a half ago.were pretty good friends,im not that shy i mean i go up to her and talk to her without much of a problem,but shes almost always with someone else so its hard to get at her alone.she says hi sometimes and today she actually came and sat on top of the table i was sitting at pretty close to me.she got up a few times but i noticed that every time she came back to sit down she was a little closer to me.coincidence or no?i touch her as we pass in the hall alot and she doesnt seem to be bothered,at least she never says so.both of our parents dont allow us to im,call or email each other so what should i do about it?does she like me?if she doesnt, what could i do to make her like me?
2006-09-15 17:17:57 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not supposed to date her either.that would make it so much easier,i would have asked her out a long time ago.
2006-09-15 17:25:06 · update #1
First off it's next to impossible to make people like you, either they do or don't but in this case you might have something here. Do you have any friends who are actually girls? If so they can "read" her for you and tell you if you have a shot at her. Girls for some reason pick up these signs faster than us guys. If not then nest chance you get talk about your friendship with her and flat out ask if you can take it to the next level. Then see what she says. If she has to get back to you later about it, then you're screwed. Most girls will know right then and there if they want to take it further than where it's currently at. They are the gate keepers and we men have the key to open it!
2006-09-15 17:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is such a big word. Even though it is only 4 letters it carries alot of weight. Keep being her freind is the first thing that you can do. Again you have not told us your age which would help with the answers you will get. Well that is hard to say. Her sitting closer each time she was coming back wel that could mean lots of things. And last but not least. You can not make someone like or love you. The only thing that you can make people do is to Hate you.
2006-09-16 00:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I like that your being yourself. Us girls like attention and almost always know when someone likes us. If she is allowing you to make some advances at her then that's a sign right there. Some girls are shy and like aggressive guys but not to the lines of them over doing it or disrespecting us or coming off desperate. Taking too long to show where your feelings are can annoy us as well too so since your communication is limited just write a note or letter and there you go the ball is in her court for her to answer yes or no. If she continues to ignore the subject then maybe she doesn't feel comfortable and you should allow her some time to think about it. Hope this helps
2006-09-16 00:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by kc_cuttie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam, When in doubt if a girl really likes you romantically take a chance and try to catch her alone. Ask her what she is doing this week-end and if she would like to take a walk, go to the Mall and window shop and eat lunch there or maybe take in a movie. You will know if she is interested if she begins talking to you and smiling. If she shrugs you off then move onto another girl and don't let this one get you down. She is just not into you, but I bet there is a girl that is and she is waiting for you to notice her just as you are trying to catch this girls attention. Believe me, you will have many girlfriends before you find just the right one so don't tie yourself down to just one. Dating one girl means you are taken. Have fun while you are young and take different girls out to the movies or to eat even if your parents have to drive. You just might make Miss Special jealous and she will see just what fun she is missing not paying enough attention to you. Good luck cutie.
2006-09-16 00:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tamara L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have strict parents woo, not even email? Okay, but can you guys go out, will your parents allow that? You'll need to find an avenue to spend time with her, if you want to get her alone.
2006-09-16 00:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try grabbing her assssss. If she doesnt get mad and gives you a smile belive me your in. About the parent problem come on man. To hell with the parents. Who listens to them anyways they were put in here to ruin our lives.
2006-09-16 00:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by the_cheap_rolex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's interested or she would have said so when you expressed your feelings to her. And I don't think you can "make" someone like you. If you had to go through all that, would you really want her under those circumstances? You want someone who likes you for you, not something you had to do.
2006-09-16 00:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're better off than i am. I'd say go for it and don't turn back. Flirt with her, try to get a tad more physical and see how she responds.
2006-09-16 00:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by dudekunle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She playing hard to get
2006-09-16 00:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she does and you should try and meet up with her at sometime like stay after school with her or something
2006-09-16 00:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by timbobs11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋