should i be upset?

Question

my fiancee left his messenger screen up and i set down and couldnt help but read as follows'' lindsey lohan is soo hooot what i would do to her i bet shes a freak on n on......coulle kines down mentions me saying we make good lovers

Answer 1

Lindsey Lohan is his fantasy world.

Don't be upset on something that isn't realistic in your lives. I highly doubt he will ever get a chance to get with her, much less met her and become "friends".

I understand it can hurt to wonder if he doesn't think that about you or feels he is comparing you to her.

Answer 2

Ok, dont be upset ma. My boyfriend gets mad when I talk about Cam'ron like that. But I do it anyways and he does the same with Buffy The Body. What are the chances that he'll meet Lindsey Lohan? What are the chances of my boyfriend meeting Buffy? Slim to none and at that even if he saw her he prolly wouldnt be able to do it ma. Dont worry. It's just a fantasy. Theres no need to get mad. If he said something about your best friend then yeah you should e upset, but he was just expressing his thoughs or fantasies. We all do it! I hope that my answer helped you. IM me on yahoo messanger if you need any more help! Good luck! and dont trip ova nuthin...

Answer 3

The answer is a series of questions.
How would you want to handle this situation in marriage? Try out your communication skills as a couple - at home and not after making love.
It may not be this particular issue, but similar ones will arise in marriage. Find out now about your ability to honestly talk.
Second question: Should you be upset? Certainly, absolutely, and without a doubt. Let him know you're upset about something and see how he handles it. There will be bills/jobs/illness and God bless you one or two pregnancies along the way. Find out how much of a man he is.

Answer 4

Fantasies are always greater than the actual reality. It's perfectly natural to fantasize about someone other than your mate, but what separates true romantics, from players, is that true romantics do not wish to hurt their mate's feelings, by being unfaithful to them. And people can be attracted to others, for any number of reasons; not just because they think that person is any hotter; just different.

Besides, he obviously thinks you're someone he'd be fantasizing about if he were with her. Nor would he be mentioning it to someone he wouldn't want to know that, if he was interested in attracting them. It sounds as if you have a great mate.

Answer 5

I can see where it would make you uncomfortable, it is normal to feel that way. Although being it is some hollywood star, I wouldn't start doubting his honesty and commitment to you. In a perfect world men would only think about the women in their life but unfortunatly it is human that men as well as us women have attractions to hollywood stars and the normal people walking down the street but what is important is that we don't act on them while in a commitment.

Answer 6

Well that is just a movie star type person. How old is he, 12, because Lindsay is kinda young. But really I would not think anything of it. Most likely he is talking crap with a friend to make himself look cool.

Answer 7

That's his fantasy, if you get upset, ha ha ha ha, you need to get a life. What is the chances of him hooking up with Lindsey?

Answer 8

you are both weird and deserve each other and I hope Lindsey joins you for a 3 sum . I think you would like it more than him.

Answer 9

I know it kinda sucks when you first think of it.But in the end its nothing to worry about,His with you.I bet think that some other person is really hot.Don't worry about it.

Answer 10

I wouldnt worry about it she is a movie star now if it was someone he actually came in contact with yeah I would get upset.