I had a crush right... and now I dont like here becuase she to imature but shes still really hot. I dont remeber her being the childish. But I dont know why but Im like all depressed over it.Has any1 else have this happen? What should I do?I know this sound alittle stupid but Im just really down right now.
2006-09-15 17:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by Crumbs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats too bad. Just get over it and find someone else
2006-09-15 17:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by ur_strange2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were disappointed because you had high expectations of her. You assumed just because she was good looking, that meant her intellectual level, would be good as well, but you saw for yourself, that wasn't the case and it turned you off, immaturity usually does. You're depressed because you really like her, but i'm not sure, if you should hold that against her. Maybe she was acting immature, from being nervous around you. I don't think you should stop pursuing her, isn't it worth another chance? Talk to her, you may feel differently about her immaturity level, if it's meant to be, things will work out, good luck.
2006-09-16 00:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...when u find out they're not very mature...then u get turned off. Hey, u need to understand its not allabout looks. If shes not mature enough for u, then u need to stop liking her (i dont know how, but just forget her). Hotness will not get u 2 anywhere. I promise. It will soon die out. How long will it last? Will u get married? Will she still be hott in her 50's? Her characer is more important than her looks.
Best of luck!
2006-09-16 00:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your just suffering from a let down. you got your hopes up high b/c this girl was hot and you thought that shed have a differtn personality. It happens to everyone just get back out there and find someoneelse or try again with her
2006-09-16 00:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by timbobs11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have, give her a chance. I regret not given the girl "who's name should not be spoken." Trust me, having someone besides is better then to hope for change.
2006-09-16 00:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
little by little, everytime she does something you don't like just tell her in a nice way. If she really likes you she could make an effort.
2006-09-16 00:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw
2006-09-16 00:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi do you lust her or love her????????????
2006-09-16 00:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kerrie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋