Family & Relationships - 2 September 2006

2006-09-02 14:25:10 · 36 answers · asked by   6 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is 28 and still lives with his mom (who is a very quiet and humble woman). She has asked him to find a job and move out, and he says he will but he doesn't. He has no girlfriend, no job, no money, no children...no attachments, basically. He stays up until 3 or 4 in the morning playing computer games, and wakes up around noon or 1pm. So a very inconsistent lifestyle. Not only that, but he doesn't show up to a lot of our family get-togethers.

He is not a bad guy AT ALL! He is really nice, but he just makes really bad decisions. I think it is part being lazy, part selfishness (he is getting free rent, free food, etc...), and possibly he may be a little depressed?

I need advice on HOW to go about getting him to get a job and MOVE ON in his life. He is a little bit of an aggressive guy (think football player build with a 15-yr-old mind), so my aunt is a little afraid to "kick him out." I need some really mature and reasonable answers to help him. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

2006-09-02 14:24:55 · 12 answers · asked by kelikristina 4 in Family

2006-09-02 14:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by lsuandutfan 1 in Family

ok, i had a huge crush (and still do) on this guy who was my best friend. he also was best friends with this girl that hated me but had previously gone out w/him. so he finally asks me out and we keep it a secret exept 4 a few friends. anyway, she finds out and tells him she will never talk 2 him again unless we're just friends and being his girlfriend and his bestfriend, i agreed to be just friends. now how do i ruin her life w/out him knowing???
r did i over react?

2006-09-02 14:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a Success or Failure?

2006-09-02 14:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by QuestionyGirly 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the best way ta tell your partner that your not sexually attracted to them anymore but you still love them?

2006-09-02 14:23:55 · 15 answers · asked by ceddy712 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very nervous about writing and delivering this speach to many people including family and friends.

2006-09-02 14:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by dwm 1 in Weddings

2006-09-02 14:23:20 · 10 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Singles & Dating

she gets a small ssi check now, she lives with my grandma,but when grandma isnt around anymore, i worry about what will happen, i do not think she can be alone all day while i work. so i am wondering how i could take care of her. is there some program where they will give me a small check to live on if i take care of her, or maybe if i can continue to work,is there some way i can get a nurse to sit with her while i am gone. (and have help paying this nurse}

2006-09-02 14:23:08 · 2 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Family

whats the best way to have sex? i would like to make my boyfriend very happy....

2006-09-02 14:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by ......... 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 and single, single because I hate getting cheated on!! Are there any woman left that know what being faithful means?? And if so, lets chat sometime

2006-09-02 14:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im goin to dump my current bf. for totaly different reasons though. but i really like this 1 guy.....please help

2006-09-02 14:22:19 · 4 answers · asked by sammie_428 1 in Singles & Dating

Like Labor day or Martin Luther King jr day. Why hasn`t the goverment thought about this!!

2006-09-02 14:22:17 · 7 answers · asked by bren_jim 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sexy or not?!?!?!

2006-09-02 14:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by T 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 14:22:03 · 32 answers · asked by silly 1 in Family

We are more than acquaintances and not too close of friends. I don't want to over spend. What would be a good gift.

2006-09-02 14:20:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jacqueline M 2 in Friends

and if the sex is the best u have ever had even though your still in a relationship with the other person would he think about me all the time

2006-09-02 14:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have u ever seen angel?if so who was it?

2006-09-02 14:19:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-02 14:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i gotta couple questions about homecoming.

1. Are dresses longer, shorter, or doesnt matter?

2. If he asked me, am i supposed to offer to pay for my ticket, part of the limmo, dinner, etc?

thanks in advance.

2006-09-02 14:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 14:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 14:18:54 · 7 answers · asked by sychille j 1 in Singles & Dating

I meet a special person and everything was going great until he meet ma cousin and everything went down the drain he acts as if im not even there he spends more time with my cousin when I ask him does he like her he goes "no" i ask him do you wanna break up with me he goes no because he loves but he dosen't even show me any affection wat should l do?

2006-09-02 14:18:29 · 18 answers · asked by caligirlweather 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on the bus this morning, and i had on a very short skirt. my legs were shiny from the baby oil i put on them. i sat next to this nerdy looking guy, and after a while, i noticed he had a little "tent" growing in his pants. it stood out proudly lol. he acted kinda shy when i asked if he was okay. he was also breathing hard. what a wuss!

2006-09-02 14:18:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They don't like each other anymore and it's weird that she has never talked to me before until yesterday and she was acting all flirty..what is up with that?:S and everytime she saw me she would speak to me.

2006-09-02 14:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

I went out with guy for a while and we really liked each but broke up a while later. Now hes a jerk to me and makes fun of the dumbest things about me. Does he hate me or still like me?

2006-09-02 14:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dunno, he usually told me that I'm such sweet in the street and freak in the sheet.... but this time time he said this new statement....

Is he complimenting me this time? What should I say or do in return?

PS: he's also great in bed!! We can do it again and again if we want to... LOL!!

2006-09-02 14:17:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-02 14:16:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have several girlfirends that call me often. Usually with nothing much to say. When we get together, I enjoy their company and look foward to spending quality time with them but how often is too often when the phone conversations seem to contain a lot of dead air?

2006-09-02 14:16:42 · 5 answers · asked by angel739902 2 in Friends

I'm pretty sure this girl is into me but I wanted to make sure of something. I've read a lot of stuff on body language and about how when a woman preens, it means she's trying to get your attention. Well, one day we were sitting in the break room together just making small talk and she took her hair down, flipped it back and then put it back up again. Is this considered preening? I should add that this isn't the only signal she's given me. This has been going on for several months now. I mean I catch her checking me out all the time. There's been lots of eye contact amongst other things.

2006-09-02 14:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by feedazombie 1 in Singles & Dating