I meet a special person and everything was going great until he meet ma cousin and everything went down the drain he acts as if im not even there he spends more time with my cousin when I ask him does he like her he goes "no" i ask him do you wanna break up with me he goes no because he loves but he dosen't even show me any affection wat should l do?
2006-09-02 14:18:29 · 18 answers · asked by caligirlweather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my experience, it looks like he likes both of you but he doesn't want to brake up with you, he wants best of both worlds. He still wants to be with you, but he still wants to hang out with your cousin. It is possible to like 2 people at once.
Best thing to do is talk to him about it, don't accuse him, just say look, it really bugs me and it is making me jealous, tel me the truth is there is anything going on..
Just keep the honesty there, if he cheats on you get rid of him, if he is just having harmless fun, then leave him be.
2006-09-02 14:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by annfunkypants 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has no class. He spends more time with your cousin than he does with you? I smell a rat. Your cousin should know better than to be spending so much time with your boyfriend. Sart meeting others guys for short get togethers at starbucks or for ice cream and see who can make you laugh and have a good time without having to have their hands all over you. Be prepared, I think you're relationship with this guy is coming to an end. DO NOT ask him again about him and your cousin. Just call him and invite him to go out 4 to 5 days from when you're calling. If he says no and does not offer a different date and time, end the call politely and wait 5-9 days. Then you will do it one more time. If he pulls the same stunt again, he's not into you and it's time to get rid of him. Good luck!
2006-09-02 14:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you talk you sound like a kid. Kids don't need boyfriends. Have some fun in life. Don't tie yourself down already with a boyfriend. Open a new window. You break up with him. Move on. He is interested in your cousin. You don't need affection from a boyfriend. Go hug your mama or daddy. Do some growing up before you jump into the fire.
2006-09-02 14:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve more out of a relationship than what he has to offer at the present time.
Do you want to be miserable and wonder all day, everyday about how to make this guy happy? It will become a draining full time job, with nothing in return but his words without actions.
You will have to be the brave one and tell him it's over. If he comes back and changes his ways toward you, than you can count yourself lucky. Good Luck.
2006-09-02 14:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i Belive his actions, show the true desire of his heart, and if he is not desiring you, then the mushy talk is simply lip service. but there is one that i want to tell you about who dosent dwell on this earth, he has been by freind savior and guide.
There was a time on earth, when in the book of Heaven; an old account was standing for sins yet unforgiven. I had broken Gods law (Ten Commandments) lied, stolen, looked with lust, used Gods name in vain. I was always sinning and never tried to pay, but when I looked ahead, and saw such pain and woe, that God has declared ever idle word a man speaks he will give an account there of and That I would stand before a Holy God on Judgment day guilty and perish in hell, I fell at the feet of Jesus, the one who suffered and died on the cross for the penalty of our sins. I repented and put my faith and trust in Jesus as my Lord and savior. And my record is clear today, because Jesus forgave me and washed my sins away, and I know when I stand before the Judgment bar, Jesus will say, “welcome my good and faithful servant”. Jesus forgave me and granted me eternal life, he has never left me or forsaken me, and he never will, i will have his assurance of salvaton until the end. If you haven I beg you to Please, seek the Lord; repent of all sin, for thus he has commanded if you would enter in. turn from sin and trust Jesus alone as savior, God Bless, good night
2006-09-02 14:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by WDJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO he is taking you for a idiot, he DOSENT love you, he is more interested in your cousin, if you love someone you cant help but show it, in everything you do, SO give him his marching orders, & you & your cousin can get out & have some fun,
2006-09-02 14:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, ask your cousin what she thinks, play dumb, maybe she will slip and let you know what is going on, if anything.
Some men don't show their feelings, but if he is spending that much time with her, then he has lost intrest in you and you need to prepare yourself to move on.
2006-09-02 14:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitley be a little suspicious of that. I would watch closely what he does and check his cell phone bill. He may not be telling you everything. Not to make you worry, but if you really want to find out......
2006-09-02 14:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbrain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through it twice Its called men wussing out in fear of commitment Find someone who is worthy of your time dear.
2006-09-02 14:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its obvious that he wants to get it on with your cousin but he doesnt want to lose u because he can still get free booty.
just dump his a s s and move on.
2006-09-02 14:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋