ok, i had a huge crush (and still do) on this guy who was my best friend. he also was best friends with this girl that hated me but had previously gone out w/him. so he finally asks me out and we keep it a secret exept 4 a few friends. anyway, she finds out and tells him she will never talk 2 him again unless we're just friends and being his girlfriend and his bestfriend, i agreed to be just friends. now how do i ruin her life w/out him knowing???
r did i over react?
2006-09-02 14:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking back over your questions you are obviously obsessed with this event in your life. I can guarantee you as times passes this to will pass. Why did you keep your going out together a secret? Is he ashamed of you or you ashamed of him? If it was his idea to keep it a secret was this not a signal to you that he believed you were not worth loosing his relationship with the other person? You were his "Girlfriend"? You may have thought so, but obviously he did not. Sweetheart if you would have truly been his "Girlfriend" he would have told her he could careless if she talked to him or not. Can you not see that she is more important to him than you? How much of her time per day do you think she spends thinking of you? You seem to spend a lot of your day thinking of her! The problem is not the other woman, it is him. The problem is you cannot admit you made a fool of yourself and continue to do so. He could have told her to get lost, but he didn't. It appears to me that his actions speak loudly if someone has to go it will be you. Save your dignity and move on.
2006-09-02 14:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by tom1941 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 02:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and find a discreet way to make him jealous to see if he actually did like you. My opinion is, if he liked you, he wouldn't have 1-kept it a secret, and 2-left you just because SHE said too. If he doesn't get jealous, then maybe you were just a pass time to him. If he DOES get jealous, try and win him back, and she will be the third wheel once again. She needs to just get a life and let others be happy. I know it may sound immature, but sometimes the only way to open a guys eyes, is to let him think he may lose you, Good luck girlfriend, I'm sure you deserve the best!
2006-09-02 14:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the intruder into their relationship from what I am reading above. No wonder she hated you. You should be mad at him instead of her. He was cheating with you. Can't you see that? Do nothing to her and consider yourself wiser from having discovered that HE is a cheater! You have just learned a valuable life lesson and saved yourself much heartache.
2006-09-02 14:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP he is taking you for a fool, & your falling for it, he asks you out & keeps it a secret, then he asks you to just be friends, & goes back to his old g/f, HE is the one who is not truthful, i would talk to the girl because i bet she didnt even know you were going out with him, i think he has gone with you behind her back,
2006-09-02 14:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** just tell him u want him back and go to that B**ch and punch her right in her c**ksucker and tell her if she dont leave ur man and u alone ur going to knock her into next week.girl stand up for urself dont stand down and let that girl have whats urs.i feel a girl fight coming on
2006-09-02 14:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't HAVE him to begin with, you went out with him a few times is all. She didn't TAKE him away from you he CHOSE to stop going out with you. YOU need to grow up.
2006-09-02 14:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is kinda confusing
2006-09-02 14:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her *** let her no who he belongs to
2006-09-02 14:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you overreacted
2006-09-02 14:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋