I have been with my partner for 7 months and it has been a great relationship, but the sex life had all but stopped. He says he still wants to have sex with me, but when it comes down to it there is something that clicks in his head and stops him. Lack of excitement, no thrill of the chase, familiarity - who knows?
He says he doesn't want it to happen, but always does and has spoilt his previous relationships. In all other aspects he is very loving, kind and great to be with.
He says it's okay for me to have casuals sex, and we both have (we're gay men - it's practically compulsory). In fact he's please when I've told him that I have - suppose it takes the pressure off him.
I love him and want the relationship to continue and he feels the same, but I find the situation frustrating.
I'd like to rekindle some of the passion that was there in the early days. I'm not naive and am not expecting the initial excitement to return, but there must be something we can do.
Help, please?
2006-08-25
21:14:35
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