Family & Relationships - 20 August 2006

I'm in my mid 20s and have always had a healthy happy sex life. I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years now.

Recently (last 2 months), whenever we go to have intercourse, I find that I just don't enjoy it. I can get aroused and ready for sex, but once we start having intercourse, I just find myself wishing it could be done faster. I'm just so frustrated with my body and don't get why things just don't feel good anymore.

I love my boyfriend and don't really think it's anything he's doing (?) Like I said, we always have quite a bit of foreplay and I do get initially aroused. I just don't know how to talk with him about this issue either. I just feel so trapped and pressured when he wants to have sex, as I know I'm not going to enjoy it once we start.

The only med I'm on is Ortho-TriCyclen. Could that be doing this?

Anyone else dealt with this? What should I do? I would really prefer not to see a psychologist as I don't have the time nor money.

2006-08-20 07:00:12 · 17 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

Other than speeding or small things.

2006-08-20 06:59:53 · 40 answers · asked by Handsup 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that i thought i cared about , we used to be in a relation ship like gf and bf kinda thing going on and when we were going out we kinda wished we never did and now that were not we stayed friends and we have gotten closer and thats all cool but he does not want to be seen with me cuz me and his friends literaly hate each other i mean last year u were lucky if we didnt even swing punches at each other well i want him back and i know he still has feelings for me but well i dont know even know how to be friends with him cuz now he feels weird when i just give him a hug or when we are near each other what do i need to do to get him back and not make him feel weird around me

2006-08-20 06:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Britt-Bratt 1 in Friends

I mean nowadays, when I was younger it would have taken a lot of courage. Just wondering if it's still the same?

2006-08-20 06:58:58 · 17 answers · asked by 5375 4 in Singles & Dating

ok im a white gurl but i love black guys. so is this right and do black guys go for white gurls?

2006-08-20 06:58:57 · 2 answers · asked by Krispy™ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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the guy i have loved for the last 5.5 years walked out on me...well not sure if he walked out or not..he got up at like 4am and take a few things from the house and the dog and is now goen NO ONE has seen him or talked to him in like 72 hours. What do i do? Do i move on and fidn someone or do i wait around on him.

2006-08-20 06:56:01 · 16 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any cool places to take my fiancee when she comes to London? i'm sure we'll figure stuff out, but any starters? hehe we're gonna have a baby too, so keep that in mind.

2006-08-20 06:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by matt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 06:54:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was dating this guy from march to may and then i broke up with him because he never talked to me adn was really shy. then we started talking again and i still like him. im not sure if he likes me again. i want to go out with him again but i dont want to have to break up with him because he is to shy. should i take my chances or not?

2006-08-20 06:54:12 · 25 answers · asked by maddie 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs has always had this dog, but the problem is that he always spends more time with her, alone, and is completely infatuated with her. i know, it's weird, but the things me and him should be doing, he chooses to do with her insted. then he complains that we never do anything fun. It didn't bother me at first, i thought it to be a bit strange how much he loves her and talks about her though. it's like she's more important. he talks about her all the time. and when we do something fun, like a romantic walk through the park, he has to bring her, and he doesn't even hear me talking, like i'll say how beautiful the night is, and he'll be deep in thought staring at the dog and not even hear me. i do admit i feel a bit jealouse, i just wish he'd call me those sweet little names he calls her, like sweety, honey, baby, he does so much with her, so on. I even have dreams about them together while i sit alone. what could i do to get him to love me like that?

2006-08-20 06:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Singles & Dating

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Do you give from your heart? Do you share with ulterior motives?

2006-08-20 06:52:53 · 19 answers · asked by anitababy.brainwash 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could send a quote or a poem to someone you love what would it be?

2006-08-20 06:52:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well whoever answers first with a cute avatar WHATZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ UUUUUUUUPPPPPPPPPPPPP

2006-08-20 06:52:36 · 47 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

The Lovers of the Heart

In order to form
a more perfect kiss,
enable the mighty hug to promote
to whom we please
but one kiss.






Article 1:

Statement of Love:
The Kiss





1.
Kiss on the hand
I adore you

2.
Kiss on the cheek
I just want to be friends

3.
Kiss on the neck
I want you

4.
Kiss on the lips
I love you

5.
Kiss on the ears
I am just playing

6.
Kiss anywhere else
lets not get carried away

7.
Look in your eyes
kiss me

8.
Playing with your hair
I can't live without you





9.
Hand on your waist
I love you to much to let you go







Article 2:
The Three Steps

1.
Girls:
If any guys gets fresh with you, slap him.

2.
Guys
If any girl slaps you, her intentions are still good.

3.
Guys & Girls
Close your eyes when kissing, it is rude to stare.

2006-08-20 06:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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I wish to receive 1st Birthday greet from the person I love but I don't think she remembers. So sad...can someone just greet me and wish me luck.....Thanks!

2006-08-20 06:50:40 · 37 answers · asked by AlienBZD 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 years old. I've never really had a stable relationship. If you could even call them relationships.
My family and friends are all PUSHING me to find a nice girl.

Im looking for a "Woman"(knows her aspirations). I don't date just to jump someone's bones. Infact I am saving for marriage.

I date here and there, but still haven't found the right one. I refuse to date a girl just for the sake of dating. I find that more unhealthy than being single.

I view a relationship as that heaven in your life, vast and beautiful, even intimidating at times. You should know what your significant other is thinking even if you're 100 million miles away from her. I want Love, not Lust.

Does it hurt to actually take an interest in your future and make sure you're 100% ready for it? Afterall you're investing YEARS into this vital aspect of your life.

Is it abnormal for a guy attending post secondary, who has his own schedule and interests in life to go single for this long? Why or why not?

2006-08-20 06:50:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

y do guysn hit on girls on the web if they have never seen them?it just freeks me out.

2006-08-20 06:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by anna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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cause i like my friends exboyfriend but she still likes him...i need seriously help

2006-08-20 06:47:35 · 24 answers · asked by wish i could have my navy man 2 in Friends

2006-08-20 06:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by lily45122002 1 in Singles & Dating

girls help me out

2006-08-20 06:45:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends hubby pee'd in their bed last night after they went to a party and he got reallly drunk.....is that normal? It's never happened before and we're wondering why now?

2006-08-20 06:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by kerry m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships