the guy i have loved for the last 5.5 years walked out on me...well not sure if he walked out or not..he got up at like 4am and take a few things from the house and the dog and is now goen NO ONE has seen him or talked to him in like 72 hours. What do i do? Do i move on and fidn someone or do i wait around on him.
2006-08-20 06:56:01 · 16 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been to the cops. I have called his family and no one knows anything but he did call and i got a voice mail form him from a 281-331-5759 number
2006-08-22 11:30:07 · update #1
maybe he left to have some space just wait for a month.if he doesn't show up or talk to you in one month that means he's gone
2006-08-20 07:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm Have You Tried Calling The Cops To File A Missing Report? Then If He Did It On Purpose..Maybe He Doesnt Love You nomore..If He Did Then He Wouldnt Just Walk Out on You...I Say Move On A Find A Better Man Because You Dont Deserve This..
2006-08-20 14:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by - Alexis. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure he walked out or not? If you are the naive, I see why he left! The first sign he walked out is that he took some things and the dog is gone! If you were thinking he was kidnapped or taken by aliens, he wouldn't have taken anything with him. You need to get some help before you move to another guy!
2006-08-20 14:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue with my life as I know it...If he left he didn't want to be there, let it go... no sense in trying to raise the dead!!! yeah 5.5 years is a lot of time but that's the pass you cant live in the pass or worry about the future, live for now and as they say in AA take it one day at a time... Me I would change the locks; 72 hours and you don't know where you live? whateva girrl scratch that... Enjoy your knew life!!!
2006-08-20 14:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by sassyme... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems quite cold to ask that if noone knows where he is for 3 days....how about filing a missing persons report with the police??? I mean, if you've been with him 5.5 years, I would think you would be more concerned about his safety and life than whether you should move on.
2006-08-20 15:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out officially if he's just left you or if by some chance he's missing. I was once told by my man that he was going to a friends to hang out on a Sat. come to find out he went to stay w/ his girlfriend. I called his job and talked to him then by Wed. he wanted to come back home.
As far as you moving on 72 hours isn't a very long time for you to be thinking about finding someone else. Are you scared to be by yourself? You don't NEED a man in your life. If you are going to move on you should try to move on by yourself before you find someone else. Rebounds aren't good!
Call his job.
Good Luck!
2006-08-20 15:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a history of just taking off? How were things between the 2 of you before he split? You probably already know in your heart if he's coming back or not....
2006-08-20 14:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
72 hours is such a long time...not. Unless you hate him (which might be why he left) how do you think of this question? If your even considering finding a new love, you probably shouldnt try to work this one out my love.
2006-08-20 14:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you packed a bag and took the dog will you be coming back, I am sure the answer is no, get on with your life.
2006-08-20 14:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lance P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If no one has heard from him you need to go to the police station and fill out a missing persons report. Becuase he lived with you its your responcibility.
2006-08-24 14:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋