2006-08-20 06:54:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in my opinion it depends on the couple. Everyone has a differing opinion of what cheating is. And if you or your husband/wife agree to certain things that others consider cheating then it wouldnt be cheating for both you and your spouse ( her being with another woman or man while you were there, threesomes, swinging etc). However if the situation was against the rules that you and your spouse established, if she decieved you or lied and went behind your back then it would be considered cheating because she was lying to you and going behind your back. This should be considered cheating reguardless because she was doing things with someone else without your consent and without you being involved. In conclusion, if you were lied to and she deliberatly done this behind your back without your involvement I would consider it cheating. If it wasnt against the rules that you and your partner have set forth and you were involved I wouldnt consider it cheating. Its all according to if she has been deceptive to you and went against the rules that you and her put forth while establishing the relationship
2006-08-20 07:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES i would consider that cheating cuz she did have sex with some one else but on the other hand at least it was not a guy but you know you can try to join the fun if you know what i mean just so u can have fun with her
2006-08-20 14:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Britt-Bratt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
If you were a lesbian couple and one of you had sex with another woman would you still be asking this question?
It doesn`t matter what sex they are, if your partner has an intimate relationship with someone else then its cheating.
2006-08-20 14:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Julie1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter the gender having sex with another person is defiantly cheating
2006-08-20 14:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by tea cup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about it. In my opinion, "cheating" always involves keeping something a secret, and i would feel "cheated" if my partner was having desires that they didn't share with me; especially if those desires resulted in them seeking out sex from other people. so it would be very context dependent.
2006-08-20 14:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by nightbiscuit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sexual relationships be it a fling or a one-night stand is cheating. Better have a heart-to-heart talk as to why she did it.
2006-08-20 14:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is.having sex with somebody else while your committed is cheating and it's a sin
2006-08-20 14:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if she let me watch....But I think anything that goes behind your back whether its with a girl or a guy is cheating because she is lying and trying to hide something from you.
2006-08-20 13:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2006-08-20 13:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she was sexual with someone else besides you. Doesnt matter the gender its still cheating.
2006-08-20 13:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋