plainly my wife of ten years,dosnt love me.She has been cold,resentful and just cruel.She says it is because i gambled heavilys increasing,the first 5 years of our marriage. I havent gambled in 2 years. Yet the resentment is increasing. six weeks ago i discovered she was having a "emotional " affair. I dont know what to believe.we are still together because of obligations to our bussines we run together,our daughter etc..she says the affair of 4 months is over. we are trying marriage counselling. I am reading various books, I am trying,She says that she may never get over my addiction to gambling. And the lying , the time i spent at the casino all the stuff that goes with attempting to hide a addiction.She wishes i had cheated on her with a woman. She says she could probably get over a affair. I just dont get it? She wasnt this upset when i was.. why is this all coming out after i have proven in the last two years that i dont gamble,how do itrust her now? im so confused,tired of it
2006-08-18
17:45:20
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bdj
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Marriage & Divorce