its not her thats doing anything wrong
she did cheat on me a long time ago but weve both put that behind us
now whenever we talk to mutual friends (who are guys) whenever she playfully flirts with them i get jealous
i know she wont do anything with them i just get all..well, jealous...
sometimes it just happens randomly too, or fter a fight
i dont know whats going on
ill add more details if needed....im just to blah now
2006-08-18 17:51:06 · 9 answers · asked by Ethernaut 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bang her sister if she has one, if she doesn't mother or best friend will do.
You need to even the score for her betrayal, this is the real reason you feel jealous. You dont trust her and deep down resent her for cheating on you. Personally I would of destroyed her self esteem then dumped her when she hit bottom... But I guess you think you like her so do what I suggested.
2006-08-19 16:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Once you've been cheated on, whether it was last week or last year, you're not going to trust easily.Your girlfriend needs to be an open book in order to earn your trust back. Not everyone is able to get past the cheating and truly forgive. Ok, so maybe you forgave her, but obviously you are still untrusting because you get jealous when you see her playfully flirt. You can either talk with her and let her know how her flirting makes you feel, and risk loosing her. It is very hard to be with a jealous partner.Or, you can end the relationship and find someone that you have a clean fresh start with, and trust completely. Sometimes when relationships become too exhausting and heavy with problems it is just better to let them go.That's why they call them just dating...
2006-08-18 18:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really no matter what you do now, it won't change the fact that she cheated on you in the first place, I for one believe that "flirting" although may be innocent, is cheating..therefore I would be as jealous as I feel I need to be. I'm lucky because my boyfriend and I agree on this so there are no problems with that. Don't think your jealousy is something to hide or is some kind of horrible monster, it's not. You are jealous for a reason and you should resolve the issue before you try suppressing your jealousy, talk to her about how it makes you feel when you see her flirting with other guys...if you need to say it is because of her past actions. Maybe she'll take the hint and leave the other guys alone. It is possible for males and females to be friends just no likely, most men are really only thinking of one thing.
2006-08-18 17:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is learn from the situation.
1) You are jealous about others. She cheated on your once before. YOU ARE NOT OVER IT.
2) She is FLIRTING WITH OTHER GUYS. She should spend her time flirting with YOU. My girlfriend and I flirt all the time ... wh y the hell have a girlfriend if she's not interested in flirting with you?
3) The situation wears you down so much that you can't even post a detailed question on Yahoo!
So ... you are being dragged down ... your girlfriend does not lift you up and invest (flirting) energy in you ... your relationship is a cause for doubt. The conclusion is obvious. Please make it.
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2006-08-18 18:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has already cheated on you once then I immagin it becomes that much harder to trust again, even if you say youve put it behind you the pain of that time in your life will always be there when similar things happen, like her playfully flirting with other guys.
I suggest you talk to her about how you feel, let her know that even though its in the past it can't just be outright forgotten, despite all effort, and tell her it hurts you when she flirts with other guys, see what she has to say about it... just talking about it will probably make you feel better.
2006-08-18 17:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-18 17:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with feeling jealous... I think it is perfectly natural...
2006-08-18 17:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you got to do is talk to her and then ask her to stop flirting alot and start showing off her boyf. (you)
2006-08-18 17:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant trst there is no way.
2006-08-18 17:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋