my boy friend is in love with me and im only 14 i know that doesnt matter i was hanging with my friendxs and this guy and his friends came up to us and the guy i knew and he said he liked me and he kissed me and i like him too what should i do?
2006-08-18 17:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aren't you a bit young to have a boyfriend at the age of 14?
2006-08-18 17:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please! You're too young for this love business. Consentrate on getting good grades so you can afford a good life for yourself. After all being responsible for yourself is just around the corner.
Boys want SEX...not love. Have fun with your young years and give yourself time to mature.
Keep your perspective on the big picture...take advantage of getting a good education. Mama and Daddy won't always be there. Boys Will come and go...they will always be hanging around. Do yourself some real good...get some smarts.
2006-08-18 18:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 ...first find out how old he is.. he sure seems DISRESPECTFUL..trust me later on you will appreciate this. first you need to set up some rules... Then you need to decide what you want from the friendship. You need to make him respect you because it will be better for you in the long run
I think at 14 you need to NOT be serious with anyone just have fun go out with your friends and LEARN as much as you can while its FREE.. Classes take a bunch of extra classes figure out how to learn and educate yourself. Because child life is harder when you are a grownup you have to pay for everything and you can't take a break. Don't let this guy get you knocked up for god's sake. Take things slow and make them respect you.
at 14 you need to be taking the pre-sat test and getting those grades ready for college in some states you can go to college your 12th grade year. Try to get educated you have your entire life to date seriously. Heck go out with both of them at 14 I would be like Hey' don't hate the players hate the game. I'm only 14 i just want to be FRIENDS that's all.. education first.
2006-08-18 17:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by The PurpleScorpionGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one. Just don't make any commitments. Obviously you are having fun and you should not have a boyfriend or call him your boyfriend since you like other guys or even one other guy. It will get too confusing. Don't play a game with the guy that loves you. Tell him you are young and not ready for a relationship like that. You don't have to have a boyfriend to be happy.
2006-08-18 17:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with one, one day or weekend. Then the other one, the next time, as a test. The one who you are most comfortable around, and with, and who treats you the best, is who you should be a couple with. And at your age, it's just friendship, so there shouldn't be any problems.
2006-08-18 17:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick neither, your no ignorant to be in a relationship, it will only come to heartbreak and wasted time.
Wait till you know what you want rather then trying to get with someone who has needs/wants from you.
2006-08-18 17:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Eliz !
Just one kiss and you are taking it so much. Life is not just one kiss. Give yourself and him some time, set him free for some time if he still comeback to you then he is yours, or else just another jerk.
2006-08-18 18:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by farcity79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u love most?can u live without your boyfriend?can u live without that guy?who makes you more happy?
2006-08-18 17:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by jen R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will grow up to be a trailer trash soccer mom so what the heck do we care what you do.
2006-08-18 17:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's hotter and which one do you prefer to call your boyfriend
2006-08-18 17:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋