My husband always puts me down, he calls it criticizing. For example, I told him that I would take over the bills. So , I have, and for the past two months his bills have been paid on time. Yesterday, I left him a note, asking him to pay two bills, with the assumption that if he could just write two checks, I would mail one and hand deliver the other. He calls me, I was at his family b-day get together, he couldn't go he was "working'', and says he doesn't understand the note, that I'm not helping him in ANY way by doing it this way, and that I should have written the checks out so he could just sign them. Am I wrong? Am I crazy? Why does he need to say that? And just for the record, we ARE going to counseling, and he HAS told me that he's expected too much from me and that he would start helping around the house and pick up after himself and that he was sorry, and he thanked me for putting up with all his crap for this long. That was a week ago. So, now what?
2006-08-16
01:56:54
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