This is a serious question peoples-so plz help!!!?

Question

ok heres the story and i need really helpful answers...
ive got this friend whos a bit older than me, not much, but she never has gotten along w/her parents very well, but since she moved to a new town, she argues and fights w/them every day. plus, she used to be really smart and got good grades in school, but now she has a bf, and im not saying thats bad, but her grades have been going down, down, down ever since they started a relationship. so now, im not allowed to see her anymore cuz her parents think shes a bad influence on me, but i really liked her and i wanna do something about it. please help!!!

Thanks guys, im srry i cant decide whos answer is best, im gonna let people vote...

Answer 1

Your parents are doing what they think is in YOUR best interest. Unfortunately, your friend has chosen her path. It's up to HER parents to discipline her and point her in the right direction. For now, listen to your parents, they can see the forest through the trees. They've probably even been there.

Answer 2

I think you need to find a way to still see her because even tho shes headed down the wrong path, you were probably the only thing that kept her from getting there sooner, and you probably still are the only thing slowing her down, losing your frendship woont help your frend, so you should find ways to keep on seeing her, and when you see her try to do things that are positive because reel frends help frends, and thats what she wood do for you.


Yor frend, B.D.P, Black Doctor Phil

Answer 3

her parents are really eager to separate you two but on the other hand you should keep in mind that you've been there for each other for along time so why should you abandon her on such a crucial moment when she needs you the most.dont let both your parents come in between you two.be there for her by letting her know that education is the mother of them all,im not saying that for you to tell her to leave the boyfriend but to get time for her studies

Answer 4

Well.........people go through this very often.....nothing can be changed by interfering or restricting.........better to show her some examples of life and ask her to concentrate on studies also tell her that being in love is not a bad thing but everythingshould be in a proper way. I dont think she can understan but give it a try

Answer 5

Tell her that she needs to get it together. Tell her that she is messing up not only her friendship with you but that ultimately her future. I mean that relationship is not going to last forever though she more than likely thinks that it will and if he cared anything about her then he would be telling her that she needs to get her grades up. But I think that there are more deep rooted problems than that, I do not think that it is that she found a bf. He more than likely takes away some of those stresses from her home life therefore, he has become paramount to her.

Answer 6

I would probably tell her that your not allowed to hang out with her because she seems to be going down a bad road and that you really don't want to lose her as a friend... Ultimately it's her call if she is willing to do what it takes to be your friend... If not, you may be better off. I know you don't want to hear that, but you need to keep your head on straight too.

Answer 7

She's walking down the wrong path, Don't make the same mistake by fallowing her.

Answer 8

tHE PROBLEM IS THAT IS SHE OPEN FOR A HELP, BECAUSE AS OF THE CASES THAT I'VE HANDLE BEING A FRIEND THAT MOST OF FRIEND APROCHES FOR A CASE IT IS POSSIBLE THA YOU YOURSELF CAN FIND THE WAY TO HELP HER IF YOU REALLY LIKE OR LOVE TO SO BUT THE PROBLEM AS I SAID IS SHE OPEN FOR THTA HELP.

I WILL NOT GIVE YOU AN ADVICE BECAUSE I BELIEVE THAT BEING HER FRIEND YOU KNOW HER MORE AND IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER YOUR LOVE WILL SHOW YOU THE WAY TO DO SO.

i'll pray for both of you tonight hope you'll help her.

Answer 9

You'll have to sneak