and text. Could this be true? Or did they have sex?
2006-08-16 02:10:43 · 15 answers · asked by sugar girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seems like you need to find out about that. Having an affair with another woman for 3 months and he claims that they only talked on the phone and email? Yeahhhhhhhhhh righhhhhhhhhhtttttt! It's very clear that he's more interested in talking and emailing with this other woman than talking to you. Sex or no sex, doesn't matter...he's still cheating!
2006-08-16 02:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to tell you anything so you won't be mad at him. Men are very good liars. He loves you and doesn't want a divorce. Sound like he just wants some one the side every now and then as most men do. He probably did have sex with her and still is but he is going to tell you what he thinks you want to hear so you won't leave him. Men don't have affairs looking to replace their wife, the just do it for fun most of the time. If a woman can get past that and not look at it as being a big deal then everything will be fine. Good luck and God Bless You.
2006-08-16 09:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be only phone and email, but I doubt it was. Three months is a very long time for just phone and email. They would have been excited and intrigued by that time. They would have wanted to meet to see if the connection is the same in person.
You have to go with your own feelings. If you trust what he says, then drop it and go on with your lives. If you have reason to suspect there is more to it than email and phone, then don't give up until you find out.
I am afraid that either way I could never trust him again.
2006-08-16 09:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex or not, could you live with this, knowing your husband was regularly talking or emailing this woman for 3 months?
It depends on the arrangement you have with him. Would it be ok if you did the same and he found out?
Most likely, they are close if they talk for 3 months. Only him and her know if they met for sex. You will probably never find out.
Now, what you have to think is can you go past that?
If you can live with this, ask him if he will stop talking to her for good.
If there was no sex involved, may be he deserves another chance... it's all up to you.
Good luck.
2006-08-16 09:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An affair is an affair, and it's called "betrayal" no matter how you color it. There's no gray areas to having an affair. He betrayed you and that's final. That said, what's your real concern? Will he do it again? Is he lying to you about it? Both possible. It's your call to continue the marriage or not. Of course, there's always counseling and God (the Bible). I hope you find your answer.
2006-08-16 09:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with her, she might give you some insight. Have a trusting friend question the woman. But either way, it takes a lot of healing to get over that. Some people can't do it, and end up in divorce. Weather they had sex or not, you need him to be faithful inside of his heart. Fantasy is natural, but pursuit is being unfaithful. You caught it before it happened. Just remember, where you find one roach, there are hundreds more lurking
2006-08-16 09:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by jamie_brahan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be, because my man of twenty years had an affair (3 months) with MY BEST FRIEND. No sex. Long story; take my word for it.
Never-the-less he thought he was in love and it broke my heart. That was a year and a half ago and I still hurt.
It was a one sided "pathological, old man young woman" syndrome. SHE loved HIM as a friend.
2006-08-16 09:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by hello_ms_moore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men are such dogs aren't we? He could be telling the truth about only e-mail and text. People do get caught up in that sort of thing. Other than a polygraph I think you will just have to choose to believe him or not. If it is going to be in the back of your mind from now on, that will drive you both bonkers!
Good luck!
2006-08-16 09:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be true but honey an affair is an affair why did he talk to her were you not available? and what was the reason for him going out side the relationship is the question
2006-08-16 09:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends if they met up or if they just got caught up in Phone and email. Ask him? and take his word for it, its all you have. A lot of times online affairs only stay online.
2006-08-16 09:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋