My boyfriend and I live together and I always felt very comfortable with him. Yesterday I told him that I have a short dark hair on my right breast. I thought it was funny. He proceeded on telling me that it completely disgusts him when I talk about private things or get comfortable around him. For example, when I burp out loud, or I warn him that I am gassy, and I turn on the fan, becasue I don't want him to be uncomfortable, or when he asks why I am using the upstairs bathroom and I tell him... I am HUMAN. These things happen to me. I know its gross, but its life. And I thought one of the perks in an intimate relationship was you can be yourself around someone else. Did (does) he expect me to "maintain the illusion" throughout our entire lives? Girls fart and poop and burp like everybody else. Do I really have to hide this forever? What should I do? This whole time I thought we had something special because we were honest with each other. I am deeply hurt.
2006-07-28
16:03:18
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