Well I've had a few relationships that have run into the ground, and the thing I hear the most is that "You love me too much" and I didn't think that was a bad thing, but then I am starting its just something they are telling me because im ugly... you see im really big, im 6'4" and about 270 lbs. I play football baseball and basketball....So its not like im fat, I have a little chub because I'm a lineman..... Please tell me what is really the matter with me...
2006-07-28 16:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by mavman7408 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a guy or a girl?
I can answer when I know...
EDIT: Okay, the real answer here is that you are either just dating as a form of cutting through the brush, looking for the jewel, or you keep messing up what you think is a woman that's right for you.
You need to ask yourself why you are dating, and look for a good woman who wants the same. If it's love and cuddle time, get to know lots and lots of women as friends so you know what to look for when you start dating again.
Good luck!
2006-07-28 16:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Beatrix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing's really wrong with you...athletic guys are awesome! Just a little bit of chub couldn't hurt ANY girl...I just wanna know why you were broken up with your girlfriend...? If it's JUST because you have a little chub, that's crap!
Hope this helps you get an idea!
Signed,
Riley's Girl
2006-07-28 16:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put yourself out there as much. if you love a girl a lot, you can do that just don't be so quick to express it to her. wait until the right time.
by the way nothing is wrong with you. my bf sometimes thinks he has that problem. it's just people have different ways of expressing themselves. sounds like you and my bf are alike in that you all express your emotions outwardly. me, i don't. i wait and keep it in, which isn't necessarily great either.
2006-07-28 16:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that you love them too much because you're probably trying too hard. They lose respect for you when you make yourself too available or when you talk too much about your feelings for them. While girls do like assholes sometimes, you needn't turn into one to make them like you. Just hang loose and try not to act like a clueless desperado and you should be just fine. Good luck!
2006-07-28 16:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably dated the materialistic immature girls. Try to do some sit-ups and fix your chest into 6-packs.
2006-07-28 16:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be cuddling to much some girls don't really like to be cuddled with a whole lot so just back off a little and then you should be fine!
2006-07-28 16:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are too easy to get....that is why they tell you that you love me too much. Be an asshole or a bad boy.....girls like bad boys.
2006-07-28 16:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably take "love" to the limits. You may smother or overly hang on them. Ask some of them to be real and tell you why!!!!
2006-07-28 16:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I can tell, there is nothing wrong with you it's the women you pick.
2006-07-28 16:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wat im a girl who has the sam god damn promblem i play all these sports im alway active but i still have a little fat on me and guys r just losers and they just like the skinny little girls which is stupid i really dont know wat to do but i just have to wait 4 the right guy
2006-07-28 16:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋