Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

parents are celebrating 30 years of marriage,they have been to disneyland,and niagara falls. my dad wants to stay within 8 hours driving distance of central n.j.,,,,,,,,,their really not into too the beach scene,,,,,,,,,,,,,ANY IDEAS?????

2006-07-20 10:38:57 · 7 answers · asked by brianlr2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy telling you that he doesn't know if he loves you or not when you ask him if he loves you? I know that it could be that he really doesn't feel love anymore, but could there be any other reasons? I asked my exboyfriend, who had just previously told me that he did love me, but I asked him today if he loved me and he responded by saying "I don't know".

2006-07-20 10:37:47 · 20 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My man and i've been together 4 2months and already he calls me his girlfriend which im lovin it. But he has said that he wants another child again he says he wants a baby soon. asked him to b honest with me i asked if he wanted to really have a baby with me and he stopped for a second and said " i don't think so" and then he said "i'd want to get married first. He smiled at me when he said it though. DO you guys think that he really wants to marry me he always makes sure i eat alot when i come to see him,and he tells me that i need to quit smoking.

2006-07-20 10:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 10:37:19 · 27 answers · asked by Pearse A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 10:36:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 6 months.arranged marraige,but soon when we got to know about each other we started loving.we fought several times.he has even physically abused me 3 times.i still love him inspite of all my problems and his hits to me.when ever there is a fight he leaves me and goes to his parents which is really hurting me alot.several misunderstandings,but at times he behaves with me well,were i wonder if it were my husband?i have been placed in a good job,and he has not been yet.we do quarrrel about job and money lots of time.even if i speakout nor keep quiet our quarrel peaks up.i am really stressed out of this problem.when he is angry i try myself to be quiet,but he speaks in a extreme were i am put in a situation to quarrel.now too we are in a quarrel,he is'nt with me,with his relatives.i talk to him what ever i think about in my life and our problems, but he does nt share his thoughts with me.so,i knew not what is going on with himself of this communication block.THANK U

2006-07-20 10:36:43 · 3 answers · asked by am 4 u nd u 4 me. 1 in Family

2006-07-20 10:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by What To Do 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I' ve worked on cruise ships for four years now and am amazed at how slutty girls become on vacation. When they get home, these same girls act like they never slept with anyone and then become "good" girls again.

Serious answers please girls. I would just like to know how the woman mind works when it comes to this topic.

Aslo, please be honest because I have seen this behaviour first hand for over four years working on cruise ships and am now back on land working a normal job where women don't act like this.

2006-07-20 10:33:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says i gotta learn to "lap dance". whats a lap dance?

2006-07-20 10:33:36 · 21 answers · asked by cu_L8R 2 in Family

"What kind of moron uses a greased iron rod to clear out a vacuum hose?" Do you think I'm a moron too?

2006-07-20 10:31:58 · 42 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-20 10:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have an ongoing discussion with a friend. Here's the situation... Male, 38, divorced for two years, has two kids (boy 4, girl 20). He believes it would be wrong of him to have a relationship with anyone because it would take away time he could have spend with his kids, so he is considering being alone for another 10-12 years. I'm saying that it DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AN EITHER/OR. That he can have a relationship AND be a good, attentive father and that the kids can be happy even if he is seeing someone. What do you think? Who's right? I would especially like to hear what the guys think.... thanks...

2006-07-20 10:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by dk_angel2005 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl from the church i go to and i asked her if she had a boyfriend and she said "no" ....What Do I Do Now?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2006-07-20 10:31:02 · 12 answers · asked by pollo0098 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 10:30:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 10:30:55 · 44 answers · asked by Addison 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 10:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by sean ha 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys geniunely find un-made up girls/girls in pyjamas/joggers etc attractive? Or are you just saying that to pacify us!?

2006-07-20 10:30:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband does work hard i cant take that away from him but he is to tired to do anything else with me or the kids and its starting to get to me he has days off but he spends them in the pub
i feel like my children dont have a father because he doesnt do nothing with them is there anything i can do to make things better for me or the kids ??

2006-07-20 10:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-20 10:29:56 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa D 1 in Family

2006-07-20 10:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by carlylatchic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you like men who treat you right?

2006-07-20 10:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by Dj Simon 1 in Singles & Dating

if u do the whole anal thing... do u have to crap afterwards? like the runs?

2006-07-20 10:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by chickie27 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 10:28:46 · 35 answers · asked by ninja-turtles 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im getting married to a hispanic guy how do we do the music for the wedding reception because our families have different taste in musichis family wants spanish music and mine wantsthe music in english what do we do my family doesnt speak any spanish and his speaks very little english

2006-07-20 10:28:15 · 19 answers · asked by j 1 in Weddings

why do people make such a big deal about inter-racial relationships im hispanic and im going out with a black guy and i get a lot of negative comments especially from mexican men ...i dont see any problem with dating outside my race

2006-07-20 10:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I babysit all the time but I've run out of fun things to do.?
I watch a nine year old girl. she's a lot of fun, she likes andy grifth shows and sometimes we watch one. but she can't sit through a whole movie. and she's not really into anything that takes time or runs out of drive. She likes to sing and dance but after wards when she wants to do something else I can't think of anything to let her do. she dosn't like to play outside and dosn't like board games. she likes to pretend were on a talk show and tell jokes but all the jokes I know are to old for her and she dosn't get them. Any simple jokes that a nine year old would get? and enjoy I want her to have fun. because if she has fun I keep my very well paying job.
Anything that would help would be great.
(Sorry people who have answered this already I need as many sugestions as I can get.)
The family that I babysit for have a model clean house. So any ideas on neat and clean crafts would really be of wonderful help!

2006-07-20 10:27:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-20 10:27:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 4 years. We both raise his daughter who is now 16. The relationship has become really stressfull, mostly about the way the girl should be raised. I want to raise her the way they raised me in Peru, with morals and values and very family oriented and he wants to raise her lay back...being disrespectful, careless, undisciplined the way he was raised. I finally got tired and decided that he should raise her on his own without me interfering. After all she is not my daughter. I am not mean to her, just strict and demand respect. I am not an evil stepmom and actually she has it really easy with her chores (clean her bdrm,her bthrm and feed the pets in the mornings). So I told him he should move out so he can do this on his own. Is this a mistake? WIll this be the begining of the end?I am not breaking up, we would be separate for the next 2 yrs until she is gone to Univ and after that we can be move back together again, alone without the main reason of our fights

2006-07-20 10:27:23 · 5 answers · asked by Luana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just made out with a girl who says she only wants me for my body and then another girl asks me on a date. I'm 80% sure that she wants to make out with me, but I recently found out that she's a friend of one of the first girl's friends. Should I go through with it or back out of the date with the second girl?

2006-07-20 10:26:25 · 6 answers · asked by wonderboy62585 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 10:26:19 · 17 answers · asked by Alexander 1 in Other - Family & Relationships