2006-07-20 10:37:19 · 27 answers · asked by Pearse A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u divorce her first! have u tried talking to ur wife? find ways to make it fun for the both of u first, and then if it doesn't work out...
however i would NEVER say that it's ever alright to have a mistress. but, that's me
2006-07-20 10:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i don't know about anyone else but there must be more problems than her just not wanting to have sex with you. there is always another reason you aren't talking about.. so you will always get half an answer.. If you aren't happy with each other why don't you get a divorce.. that is the solution. not cheating on her for sex.
If there isn't anything else but sex on your mind. then you don't have a marriage anyway..
Cheating is not the answer .. why don't you bother to find out why she don't want to have sex with you. there are a few reasons for that.. If she has gone through the change of life. or you are a jerk.. or she thinks that you are already messing around with someone else.
find out why before you do anything.. take appropriet action after that but talk to her first and find out why she don't want you touching her..
If it can't be resolved. the best way to deal with it is to divorce so that you both can be happy..
2006-07-20 17:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife told you that you are 'permitted' to find a mistress for sex action then sure... go ahead... But if your feeling lack of sexual attention then talk to your wife... She's your WIFE and you should be able to talk to her. If you sneak and get a mistress be prepared for the worst just in case your wife finds out.
2006-07-20 17:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not. Don't do anything that might interfere with the emotional attachments the two of you have built together. I recommend you go with a pro. That's right keep it strictly business. Your wife is great in every area except providing you with sex. Find where prostitution is legal and adjust. Get a few good pornography video and use your spare time wisely. When you just can't bare the absence of human touch, go out of town on business.
2006-07-20 17:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gingerbread Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think tats a very nice thing to do, is it? i mean, if u really need to do sex and u cant live without tat, jux divorce her.... it would still be better than cheating on her, right? or if u really love her, dont care whether u re able to do tat*** or not right? anyway, its up to u... but of cuz i hope tat u will find a right time to ask ur wife y she doesnt allow u to touch her.... maybe she has her reasons? think welll!!!!!
2006-07-21 01:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by sadgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stupid. Think about:
A. Your wedding vows
And
B. The law
The only person who can "permit" you is your wife and even if she says yes she probably doesn't know how much it will end up hurting her and it will screw your relationship up forty times as much as your antsy pants.
2006-07-20 17:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by eljoeyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby let me tell you what my mom use to tell me. What your woman won't do at home, another woman will do else where. In other words if you are not getting any sex, hell find someone else. But, first confront her and find out what's up with her. If you don't like her answer have another woman do you.
2006-07-20 17:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by VivaciousandSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....u need to sit her down and let her know what u r considering due to the fact of her not wanting to b intimate with u...marriage isnt just about sex.. find out why she isnt etting u in, there may b a reason...try counseling. u made vows.. remember those promises u made on ur wedding day...
2006-07-20 17:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are permitted in any legal reasons, however lack of physical contact is good gorunds for divorce.
2006-07-20 17:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Alistair B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first ting u need to do is ask why see wont let u touch her and try to work through it . maybe she is stressed or depressed ! try and support Ur wife instead of making her feel replaceable
2006-07-20 18:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋