Why are women sluts on vacation and then don't add the guys they've slept with to their list?

Question

I' ve worked on cruise ships for four years now and am amazed at how slutty girls become on vacation. When they get home, these same girls act like they never slept with anyone and then become "good" girls again.

Serious answers please girls. I would just like to know how the woman mind works when it comes to this topic.

Aslo, please be honest because I have seen this behaviour first hand for over four years working on cruise ships and am now back on land working a normal job where women don't act like this.

Answer 1

Because their men part of their brains take control on vacations thats why

Answer 2

Well it is like this, you will never know who they are adding on their list and guys will never get an honest answer. So in saying that, it is as simple as this. What goes on during vacation stays there. There is no need to bring that baggage along with you, for what. So you ask about the women but I am sure they had some help. Let's get the record straight men are sluts too, when you go on vacation EVERYBODY has the same agenda so don't point fingers mister. We just have more fun, that's all. Plus no one knows you, you can do what you want. Face it, a real woman is not going to be a slut in her own community we just suppress our feelings and go on vacation. No big deal we are all adults just trying to get our groove on, hehe.

Answer 3

It would be an assumption but woman have a tendency to let loose on vacation. Why this is I'm not so sure I used to be more wild at home and when I went on vacation I thought I would hook up and I was the total good girl. Now I am with somebody so my out look has changed tremendously. It depends on the girl I guess. Hope that helped you out some!

Answer 4

Cruise Ship Sluts

Answer 5

In the eyes of men (or other women) take only your share, but when alone, grabeth what you can.

You have to understand, women have sexual desires just like men do, but culturally they are inhibited, they are branded "Sluts" for exhibiting sexual deisre openly,or having multiple partners in short periods of time.
But I am willing to bet you don't consider yourself anything less than a "Stud" or "Hero for all the "Sluts" you bedded during those four years
on the ship.

Answer 6

because when we're on vacation we're a whole different person we know we will never see this one night stand again so why not have fun once we get back home we're the innocent shy type because we know the man we meet on land he may be a keeper so we show and act different and you know the saying what happens in Vegas stay in Vegas

Answer 7

I think that the word 'vacation' means to get away from it all, including reality. When they go on vacation they're in a new place where no one knows them they can just let it all go because it feels like there in a diferent world! They know that the things they do won't haunt them for the rest of their lives because no one knows them... SO they let loose temporarily and when they get back home, they get back to reality and they have to go back to being themself. but sometimes... the things they do catch up with them.

Answer 8

This is making me think. I am going on a cruise next month. I am going with my mom and sister, so I will be well behaved. But I will be keeping my eyes peeled for the slutty chicks in action.

Answer 9

Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. When you're on vacation, where no one knows you, you tend to let loose. This is regardless of whether you are a man or a woman. Ask yourself...how many men wear women's panties while on a business trip. Same concept.

Answer 10

That's B.S. I'm sure some women are like that on vacation, but not all women. How do you know anyway? Obviously because they're sleeping with you, Mr. Double Standard Skanky Pants.

Answer 11

Let me feel you in on something...
When women go on vacation, that is exactly what it is!
You go someplace people don't know you, you try to let loose and be free to do whatever it is that your heart contents.
Women let go of all their inhibitions and act/do things they normally wouldn't, because chances are they will never see these people again.

At home though, you are expected to act a certain way. There is an unspoken code of conduct that everyone has to follow. No one wants to damage their self-image at home with co-workers, bosses, family, friends.

So when PEOPLE (men included) go on vacation they tend to step out of their normal-everyday-boring-life, and do unexpected and "fun" things. they do it for the memories, the freedom, the ability to know that they are still in control of their choices.

Cause, heck, what no one else knows; they can't judge you.

But you do this at home, everyone knows. Everyone is talking about it and putting you in a category that no female wants to be in.

I don't see anything wrong with it, and I say "GO GET 'EM GIRLS!!!"