Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

Just tell me your opinion. If you think this is right or wrong. And remember I said "some" guys, not all.

2006-07-15 04:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm am so bummed and I hate my life cause my girlfriend never stops talking!~Yak Yak Yak! I can't turn on the AC cause she is always cold, I can never watch the games on TV, and there is never any coca cola in the fridge, And I'm hungry as heck and she won't cook anything. I am ready to blow my brains out!!!!!!!!~and she is just sucking the life blood out of me, but I love her. Am I a sicko or what? and what should I do?

2006-07-15 04:29:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the same way i fall in love i could fall right out,if i grow to love someone, i know its real and it will last a lifetime

2006-07-15 04:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by amiracan_sweethart 1 in Singles & Dating

The chicas at work get mad if I don't compliment them and smile at them everyday. A lot of them are married and have boyfriends, so stay out of my world . It's not my responsibility. WTF.

2006-07-15 04:27:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 04:26:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"The Joy"

I'm in this position to where I must listen
Wondering why after all these years I feel there was nothing I was missing
Same words, different thoughts on my behalf
Same crazy uncle with the same crazy laugh
How is that people allow themselves not to change
You dont go to school and just learn one subject, there's a myriad of thangs
Break down the definition of spirit/soul
I'm sure I'm not the only one not comprehending what's being told
Scared to question, satisfied with no answers
This aint no religion, its ritual, destorying the cells of our soul like cancer
I'm feeling uncomfortable, and I wanna keep an open mind
Wondering why I came, and lo and behold, up from behind
I expected them to show, I figured they'd be here
I expected mommas face to glow, a kiss on the cheek, a hey dear
But what I didnt expect, and what I dont recall seeing
Is the smile on my sisters face towards me for just being
It was genuine, it was pure, it was a blessing too see
I dont recall her ever looking like she did directly at me
I was warmed all over, and had no doubts about her love
She loved me and it showed, I thanked the Being above
Why havent I seen this before, why in church, why now?
I stopped questioning everything, and just sat in elation at my sisters smile.

2006-07-15 04:26:42 · 2 answers · asked by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 in Singles & Dating

so there is this girl i really like and last night i told her how pretty she was and that i liked her and she said well ur not too bad ur self is that good or bad

2006-07-15 04:25:44 · 35 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

n i mean the WORST HABIT EVER!!!!

2006-07-15 04:25:20 · 22 answers · asked by honney bunny 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 04:25:09 · 8 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 04:24:15 · 5 answers · asked by Italian Medallion 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 04:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by X P 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of five years is breaking up with me and says he needs space to be himself. I cant get over him and cry everyday and want him so bad. he just keeps saying that he is confused and needs time to think and hang out with the guys. He says he still loves me but doesn't think we can be together. I just want to be with him and nobody else. what can i do to stop crying and move on with my life. its so hard and the pain is unreal.

2006-07-15 04:23:26 · 4 answers · asked by jaide333 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 04:23:06 · 11 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and i feel like i dont fit in with most people my age, they are all looking to always jsut drink or smoke or do stupid things like that instead of something productive and fun. Most do not read books or enjoy actual music, only read magazines and listen to pop muisc. i try to be openminded about simplistic ideals such as these but i dont have alot of paitience and understanding for this.
so now i dont have many friends what do i do?

2006-07-15 04:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by aod6string 2 in Friends

2006-07-15 04:22:29 · 12 answers · asked by Coodles 5 in Singles & Dating

Would u find the size of breat of your gf? Are u more excited if hers is bigger?

2006-07-15 04:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a good head on my shoulders..and I am looking for a nice, sweet, caring, and supportive guy to settle down with. I want to meet a nice guy that doesn't just want me for my body. When guys see me they fall in love with my big booty..but I want them to like me for me and not my body. Alot of times it gets frustating and I can't hide my ***..but when guys see it thats what attracts them to me. They immediately think sex.. and thats not what Im all about. What can I do??

2006-07-15 04:21:58 · 14 answers · asked by Kayla22 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you met a penpal here? I'm not talking about meeting in person, just someone you met here and you e-mail/chat regularly.

2006-07-15 04:21:39 · 7 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

he was my best frnd .he always used to comment upon everything just as all frnds do but suddenly one day he told me tht i look sweet to him and he does 'nt want anyone to know about this relationship . he didnt tell me anything clearly and now i hav stopped talking to him. he gave me a hint tht he wants to be alone wid me . is he really interested in me ?

2006-07-15 04:21:38 · 5 answers · asked by vin 1 in Friends

Yes, or no?

2006-07-15 04:19:52 · 27 answers · asked by doubled254 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 04:19:06 · 2 answers · asked by John 1 in Family

2006-07-15 04:18:29 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 04:18:28 · 10 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Singles & Dating

Statistics show that 1 and 6 people have genital herpes. But more than 90% of the people out there dating claim to be free of sexually transmitted diseases. I am in the 17% who has it and am asymptomatic but would like to date again.

2006-07-15 04:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by Peter 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend Denise is black.

2006-07-15 04:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Christopher F 2 in Singles & Dating

Random whack question. I'm in the middle of a divorce (i'm american living in germany) and my wife (german- was living in germany) seems to have vanished. The courts came to her home to present divorce papers and she was gone. Any places online i could use to aid in my person search?

2006-07-15 04:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by master shake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been seeing a guy for around 5 months,im 4 years older he is 31,we both came out of long term relationships with kids a year ago,so at first it was just seeing each other for fun,no commitments,one minute he said he had feelings for me to make it official,then another time he called it a day cos he said it was geting complicated,then he offered friendship or sex to chose from,i chosed to carry on seeing him wotever as i had feelings for him,now he says i chosed the sex ,i never just wanted to see him,told him i had feelings for him,he knew this and he still saw me knowing this ,now he says he was in it for the sex and is trying to get back with his ex,told him didnt like the way he has treated me ,he cant make his mind up and i still like him and am hurt,he asked where do we go from here ,i said i dont know,now at his local there is a party and he said to come down with my mate but warned me that his ex will be the there as well. told him his ex will hurt him again if he goes back

2006-07-15 04:15:57 · 22 answers · asked by wendspoton 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 23 year old daughter that is the mother of my 4 year old grand daughter. My daughter is mad at me and is not allowing me to see my grand daughter. I need to know what my rights as a grandparent are. Can anybody help me?

2006-07-15 04:13:01 · 4 answers · asked by myzticalblueeyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love this guy and I think he even knows it. He sends me mixed signals sometimes. One day he'll want to hang out and make out the next he completly hates me(he pretends too untill he sees I'm hurt by what he's said and goes all out to apoligise to me) On the other hand I'm best friends with his younger sister and she tells me that he thinks that I'm cute , and somedays he does'nt want me around when his siblings around. When Its just the two of us he cant get enough of me . I have'nt hads sex with him or anything . He undersatands that I won't go that far. He throws partys and always invites me over. He compliments me on what I'm weraring. He's asked me out three times and I said no. My father had cancar and died and I did'nt want to lay that burden on him. Its been almost a year and I still really want this guy as more than a friend. Even though he's african american and I'm mixed with african,Indian(India) and white. Should I ask him out with all his mixed signals or stay friends?

2006-07-15 04:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't believe what a pitifully pathetic piece of manure I've become, but I need to talk about this to anyone who can hear. I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. This is my fourth serious relationship, and I am ready to settle down. This is HIS first serious relationship. I let him know this about four months into our relationship that marriage was my goal, and though he was surprised and a bit confused at first, he seemed to want to get married as much as I did more and more every day. When I let him know from the start that I wouldn't wait for him more than 5 years (probably not even that long), he said that he wanted to get marry ASAP. We even opened a bank account together. But it's been a couple of months since he told me that maybe we won't get married as soon as I had hoped. BUT LAST NIGHT... last night he told me he's not sure he even wants to marry anymore. He just graduated college and he says he's not sure of what he wants anymore. And now he told me that he doubts he'll even be ready to marry in 5 years. He says he wants to marry eventually, but he doesn't know when.... and, he said, "as much as I love you," he's not even sure if we are compatible.

I love him as I've loved no other man.... and though I've tried breaking up with him before, he always begs me not to go... but last night HE broke up with me. He cried like a baby, as did I... but I ran to my house. I couldn't stand the pain of losing him, and I called him telling him that it doesn't matter and that we can work on it. We got back togehter instantly, but things don't really feel the same. Yet he demands the same level of intimacy-- like, sex and sleeping over. I asked him how long are we going to "play house," and he says he doesn't know. WHAT HURTS ME THE MOST is that he said he was so sorry for hurting me, but that he really meant what he had said about spending his life with me at the time. "At the time... I really meant it. I deluded myself." And the bank account? THat was part of the delusion as well.

Now, my question is, should I, the once strong independent woman, and now a pathetic loser-- should I rehearse and wait for him to realize that it is I who he wants to marry, knowing that no matter how much effort I put on my part, I know there's a risk he might let me go? I love him VERY much. I've always been careless and somewhat selfish in relationships which is why they never really worked in the past-- which is why I am trying so hard, because I think he's worth it... but am I losing my dignity? I mean, he's a great guy. Responsible, mature, punctual, loving, caring, spends most of his time with me.. but some of the reasons for our constant bickering have to do with our difference in personalities. You see, he is extremely social and most of his friends are female, whereas I am not too social unless I am attracted to someone, and I am a bit financially irresponsible. He says he wants someone who is financially responsible... and I want to be that way... but if I do, he'll think that I am doing it for him, because honestly I think I am coming off as desperate, and he'll think that I'd do anything to marry him. And I would... but I have no clue what to do.

READERS, please, tell me, WHAT should I do? I love this guy to death, but is he worth my time? SHould I continue to give him "free rides" knowing that I may not get to marry him? Or was he just feeling pressured by my ultimatums and it's in my shoes now to prove that I am not as bitchy? SHould I change my convictions just to keep the guy? PLEASE SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!

2006-07-15 04:10:29 · 36 answers · asked by confusedphilosopher43 1 in Marriage & Divorce