My ex-neighbor and friend is 48 and I am29. Because i have moved we talk by phone every tuesday. She once had a marriage that was really bad ultimately causeing her to move here and start over in life. "Suzie "found God and moved on. I am dealing w/ a bad relationship,and have a parent who is using me to death. Suzie will ask "How are you and so and so are doing?" When I complain about their disgusting behavior, she will cut me off, or say "if you like it,I love it", or use God by saying something like I am being punished for something and this is why I am being treated this way. This week she was like if I wasn't so holy, I would use your dumb but too, when she asked about the family member and the b/f. I know she is trying to give tough love or tell me things I may notwant tohear, but why be so insulting. I am sure she would understand my situation b/c she was with and somewhat abusive relationship w/ family and husband. How can I set her straight?
2006-06-22
11:39:35
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