it's not like im banned from dating but im just nervous. tons of guys have asked me out and i've always made excuses. what do i do?
2006-06-22 11:43:16 · 21 answers · asked by Mrs. Depp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well than you need to get over yourself and stop wasting your time. geez. or keep doing this, and wind up with no life and no friends.
2006-06-22 11:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by emopinatas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with friends both guys and girls in a relaxed setting such as a party, a ball game, the beach by the pool or just talking. Over time you will become more comfortable. There is no set time when you should start dating, when the time is right you will know. You may want to date only someone that is not only nice to look at but that is your equal. There is nothing wrong with waiting for Mr Right instead of Mr. Right now. I personnally waited and dated very little and I am so glad I did. I weeded out the jerks and married Mr. Wonderful. Take care and good luck....
2006-06-22 18:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you the truth, You should go for it when ever you feel ready, because if you truely don't, and you do it cus your feeling pressured , your not going to personally enjoy the feeling of "dating someone" take your time and just see what you would like in a relationship. We have years over our heads , so we are all able to just take it easy and live life to the fullest, regardless if you have a date or not. Remember its If YOU are ready for the commitment.
Hope this helps , jon
2006-06-22 18:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by GhostHunter4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just not ready. Take your time. There's no rush to find that guy that tell you you don't know how to cook. Go at your own pace. But, if you have not been that lucky enough to be asked on a date then you have yourself a problem. Fix yourself. I mean make yourself look more beautiful. Or give them a chance. Life is a chance you have. Give to receive. take care.
2006-06-22 18:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by TopBoi4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes once. Take a chance. Just because you go on one date..doesn't mean it is a lifetime commitment. You don't have to go out on a second date if you don't like the first.
2006-06-22 18:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i am scared to date too. i dont think there is any thing wrong with it at all. i think that im mostly scared that im going to be put into a positiuon that i cant get mtself out of, i dont trust guys any more i have been through to much to. but there is nothing wrong with that... when you meet some 1 you can trust that will help you out alot.
2006-06-22 18:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Grumpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way. ive never been on a date, why dont you wait for a guy that u have none for a really long time and actually talk to each other a lot and see if he would ask you out. u dont ask him out, that is his job
2006-06-22 18:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you agree to go out with the guy you choose but double date with another girlfriend and her boyfriend or go out in group situations until you are comfortable dating one on one.
2006-06-22 18:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by fairydust12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunt b scared diz is life is one does not work out more on to the next one but not 2 fast lol, just make sure u dunt do things wit dem dat u will regret later on in ur life.
2006-06-22 18:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then don't.
But don't put it off forever. Being scared is a normal part of dating, and you just never know who you'll meet.
2006-06-22 18:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can alway wait but u can also take a change to let it hold u back cuz then u will be lonely for the rest of ur life
2006-06-22 18:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋