how can i tell if my husband still loves me? ive tried asking him, but he has no reasons for why he does, and really doesnt act like it anymore
2006-06-22 11:47:43 · 11 answers · asked by my_0nly_downfall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but what counts as acting like he loves me?!? i dont how to tell if hes just giving "tuff love" or if its burnt out between the two of us
2006-06-22 11:52:16 · update #1
my dear friend, love in many cases have no reasons. i love my friend, she asked me why i am in love with her. to be frank i dont have any reason for that. that doesnt mean that i dont love her. trust is the only friend for love dear. as long as we have trust in us and in our lovd ones, we'll not have any problem. trust him and your life will be colorfull
2006-06-22 11:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sudheendra Rayabhagi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is trouble in paradise! If he cant tell you why he loves you then you better be doing something to remind him why! Try doing something special for him sexually... guys love sex duh? But that's not all... are you listening to him or nagging? Are you encouraging his goals and dreams? Are you doing any recreational activities outside of the bedroom together? Are you supportive of him?
Also, maybe he's the problem... if your doing all of this and he's not doing these thing for you too.. and he still doesnt know why he's with you, then maybe you better find someone who will appreciate it cause it's not easy to be the supporting wife and if your holding up your end of the deal.. then he needs to be doing that also. Are you still basically the same person he married other than the usual life changes? Maybe you've changed and he is having trouble adjusting? If he deeply loves you... you should know.
2006-06-22 12:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, to me marriage vows are forever. The love that I share with my man is undying. Anything can survive LOVE if you both work together. Sit down with him. Ask him what is going on between the two of you. Don't joke, ask him like you mean it. Don't let him slip away from the conversation either, men are like that.. Evil and don't want to confront confrintation LOL
Sit him down explain to him that you feel like you two are drifting apart. And you would (if you still want to) stay with him. Try to rekindle the spark that set the two of you off in the first place..
If all else fails, try to see a marriage councelor.
Divorce is not always the way out,
2006-06-22 12:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by echoesrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt know what to do right now and he wants u to do something about it. Maybe ask him how he feels and if he responds negatively dont give up but if he still being an asshole just take time away from eachother. He probably wants space.
2006-06-22 11:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie thats happened to lots of people. anyways mens nature is acting like he doesent love u but he does. he's just hiding it cause men think that if they avoid u you would go after them. dont do that baby. all u gotta do is ignore him, which HE is doing. and he'll come running to u. try it. hope it works as it did to others!
2006-06-22 13:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't talk to you except when you do to him. If he doesn't want sex with you and seem to really enjoy it. If he seems to fine reasons to not be home when he should.
If these are true he does not love you.
If you ask him if he loves you and he does not say he does. Well....you have your answer.
2006-06-22 11:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you...
my husband is the same , he has his own way of showing it... you just have to find your husbands special way to show his love to you...
he loves you :)
2006-06-22 12:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just try to rekindle it. asking won't help. it's not something he may even know anymore. actions speak louder than words
2006-06-22 11:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by emopinatas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't filed for divorce, stop asking him. All relationships go through phases. :)
ck yourself. do YOU love him?
2006-06-22 11:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wwould let him know how much i love hima nd if that dont work then show him the good "showing him what he would be missing"
2006-06-22 11:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Grumpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋