Well I am an 20 year old woman who hasn't been out with any guy ever ( i turn them all down) I like looking at girls butts and when I fantazise about having sex with someone its a girl im thinking about not a guy so my qusetion is are these signs of being gay cause i really don't want to believe it for my entire family are so against the same sex relationship.
2006-06-22 11:37:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quite possibly. It depends on whether there are any real-life women you fancy or if it's just fantasy-women in your head. Don't feel obliged to try out men. Only do it if if u get the urge!
2006-06-22 11:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Pinky222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allot of my fantasies are of me being with women, and when it comes to porn all I want to see are the women. And I am not gay or a lesbian. My sex life is very active with my boyfriend, but everyone has fantasies....But with your comment of turning all guys down, have you ever thought of going out with one to see if it was for you or not? And doing the same with a woman? You are who you are, gay or not, your family should be your second concern. Your the first!!!
2006-06-22 18:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not as old as you are but I've been in that situation for a few years prior to my conclusion. I was raised in a strict christian home but I still turned out to love the same sex. You may be gay but that isn't a certainty, give it time or just give it a try.
2006-06-22 18:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ithy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well think about the reason why turned them down, were the reasons rational? and if you fantasize about girls then that means you are ok with the thought of sleeping with a female. I would suggest that you ask a guy out and spend sometime with him, it will be more clear for you then, but you must accept whatever it is because being in denial and looking for your familys assurance would make you very unstable. Take it more seriouslly. :) good luck
2006-06-22 18:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by mystri_guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me you are a lesbian. You are 20, therefor you are free to do what you wish. If you are really really close with your family then it's going to be tough. If you do not live with them or see them often.....why should it matter then? You are a woman, and your happiness is what counts. They say family should be there for your thick or thin. If you like women, find one to go out with...even just as friends, and see what happens from there....it can't hurt right?
2006-06-22 18:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by alilfishy06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could ever possible be gay but if i was you i would try dating a guy first and see how that goes if you don't like want you experience then you answered your own question.
2006-06-22 18:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by x-navy girl 0822 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I fantasize about girls but I am not gay. But if you are only attracted to girls try dating one and see if it feels right.
2006-06-22 18:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Badassyellabone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are tilted some towards woman, but maybe you like both men and woman
2006-06-22 18:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should at least try going out with a guy and see how it feels. You could just be confused, but follow your heart.
2006-06-22 18:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with your instinct don't let your family hold you back. if your gay your gay your family will most likely if not right away eventually understand
2006-06-22 18:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by dancer24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋