I’ve been married for 12 years. My husband and I have actually been together for 17 years. There was a time when we shared so much passion. After three children, four homes, several cars and most of all, bills, the passion has faded with me. I love him so much, but have been in a rut for the last couple of years. He hasn’t lost any passion towards me. In fact, he seemed to turn it up a few notches, which really started putting the pressure on me. I’ve become comfortable with not having intimate relations with him and rarely want to engage in the act itself. He on the other hand is in his prime. This imbalance has created such turmoil between the two of us, he’s been thinking about leaving. I don’t want that. I love my husband deeply. He’s my best friend. My self-image has become so twisted over the years, that I don’t feel sexually appealing anymore. Between a career, the kids and the other stuff that comes along with a marriage, I’ve put what US on the back burner.
2006-06-21
05:02:08
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Lola
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Marriage & Divorce