We've been together for three years now. She dated this guy for a little while when she was maybe 16 (six years ago). They keep in touch sporadically, and just recently got together for dinner. Nothing happened, and I don't expect it ever would. I trust my fiance completely, so it's not me thinking she's going to cheat on me with him. It's just kind of uncomfortable for me... I guess it feels like she's taking time that she could spend with me and giving it to him. I don't go running around with other girls, and expect that I should be the only guy in her life. So, I guess the question (questions, heh) comes down to:
1) Am I being overly paranoid/protective?
2) It's not mistrust, and I can't put a finger on what it is. Any insights?
3) How do I deal? (no card jokes, please)
4) Is it normal to keep in contact with exes? I'm of the mindset where one should make a clean break and disassociate completely.
I guess that's it... thanks for reading! That's all 1000 chars!!!
2006-06-19
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