Family & Relationships - 17 June 2006

I'm a very observant person who analyzes every aspect of a person's behavior. People are often surprised that I can tell so much about their background and what type of person they are without knowing them well. Now & then I'm blinded by physical attraction & need a lil help.

This guy I went out with last weekend used to be married to a girl I worked with. She was very abusive, as was his first wife & his luck w/women has been bad, but he's always seemed real nice. He's extremely quiet but as I soon found out, not shy. He doesn't like to be alone & is very giving & cuddly. I really like him & we ended up going out b/c our daughters are b/f.

Before I went home last weekend he asked me out for this weekend, & made plans to go to six flags next weekend. He also told me he would drive up & visit during the week.

His daughter lives w/me & she said he'd be up but he's not answering his phone and he's vanished. What is the reason he's avoiding me?

2006-06-17 08:38:53 · 24 answers · asked by xtcgurl123 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy seems to know what I write to other people on instant messenger. Very friggen creepy. I hope he can learn to get a life.

2006-06-17 08:37:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about in schools, I mean in the home. I'm against it, one shouldn't hit an animal, much less a child. If you feel the need to hit your child, then you have failed to your child.

However, there are differences of opinion. Are you for spanking children or not? Explain. And please, nice answers, let's keep this at a mature, adult level, no insults or name-calling. Thanx!

2006-06-17 08:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by Dolores G. Llamas 6 in Family

I just think it should be automatic, If you let us do it then it should be some repayment, though you didnt ask. Instead we get, "What kind of girl do you think I am, or thats discusting.

2006-06-17 08:36:49 · 12 answers · asked by PANTHA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 08:36:49 · 15 answers · asked by mumtaz 6 in Family

Its just a guesiton that i have been dieing to ask and i never have asked.

2006-06-17 08:36:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-17 08:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by doc_is 4 in Singles & Dating

i met my partner and as he walked up to me i knew it was him i was supposed to spend the rest of my life with!i waited for more than 40 years, bad marriage in between and then we met! every day i smile and cant believe what i had to put up with before i met him. he makes me so happy.

2006-06-17 08:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by jean t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll miss Ya'll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-17 08:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-17 08:34:35 · 2 answers · asked by Mic 2 in Singles & Dating

The thought of being all lovey dovey with some1 makes me feel sick! Does this make me weird? U know when you see couples kissing & cuddleing...can't imagine me being in a relationship like that. Are some people just meant to be single? I know that i'm straight but don't actually want to be with no-one coz i can't be bothered, ain't got the time...or am i jst making exuses & y?

2006-06-17 08:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love it.

2006-06-17 08:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Diffrent when they are here like he complanes alot about the things they do say or dont do it just to me it seems my kids never do anything right in his eyes. It really hurts me so much because my three kids are my everything i mean i bring three time more the income then he dose most of his income goes to his child support for his two girls. He came to me he came with only a bag of close i had every thing from a home to car and i pay for all my bills some times i still pay for them any ways can any one tell me how to cope with this anything well help.

2006-06-17 08:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by nursetech 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First off let me say i'm mixed, my moms mexican and my dad was black. If your a racist good for you but why do u people say go back to where you came from? that makes no sense. its obvious your talking about africa but ive never been and the majority of people of color have never been either. i came from my moms cutchie, & came out in california. i mean thats just so stupid, u dont see otheres telling white people go back to england. cause its stupid. it just makes no sense to me. I love people of all races and back round. it makes no sense to waste you life being angry and hating people just cause of what they look like!

Peice Love and Happiness to everyone...even the ones who hate!

2006-06-17 08:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 08:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by monkeyslapsbass 1 in Family

What is that one thing or several things your date can do that will turn you off or just P!ss you off instantly?
It can be a physical act (Like picking their nose), a verbal comment (Like "You are not the worst dressed person out tonight, but your close") or a bad habit (Like not using deodorant). What ever it is please share it so those who read can be more aware of it.

2006-06-17 08:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've liked eachother for a long time, but none of us has said anything. I mean we flirt with eachother and everything but nothing happens. He was going to ask me out (i didnt know) but somebody else did. I went out with the other guy for a while and then he broke up with me. Know the guy I like has a girlfriend! But he still flirts with me. Should I just let him go? What should I do?

2006-06-17 08:30:25 · 4 answers · asked by Numan girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together in a relationship for 7 months. At the beginning of our relationship, he asked me if I ever slept with a guy that he knows and work with. He originally asked me jokingly so I changed the subject and said we just talked on the phone and we never were intimate. 7 months later, the topic has come up again. This time he asked me directly and seriously. At first I lied and said I came close, but a few minutes later I admitted that we did sleep together. He became irrate and called me all kinds of names, made me feel lower than dirt (which is what I experienced anyway when I slept with the guy). I should have been honest up front, but I didn't want his perception of me to change and didnt want to hurt him especially since they work together. Now my boyfriend will barely talk to me, he doesn't trust me anymore eventhough I slept with the guy almost 3 years ago before my boyfriend and I ever thought about a relationship! What do I do?

2006-06-17 08:28:58 · 19 answers · asked by Jai C 1 in Singles & Dating

He feels sorry lots but because of my attitude problem i am not responding to his words and i keep ignoring him. I dont wanna loose my attitude and at the same time i dont wanna hurt him anymore. wat should i do now? im totally upset and frustrated. I know the attitude problem is very bad. But its born by birth. I cannot change it in any way for anybody. Please advice.............. Thanks.

2006-06-17 08:27:53 · 5 answers · asked by mickie 1 in Friends

2006-06-17 08:26:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Those who did, could you tell me what to expect? In terms of obstacles and also whether your relationship is a successful one. Thanks.

2006-06-17 08:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Love S 2 in Weddings

im 24 and this year i want to do somthing special for my day hes my step dad i just want to know if any one can help on a low buget

2006-06-17 08:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by pookie 2 in Family

Why is sex the No. 1 issue? isnt there any other interesting issues?

2006-06-17 08:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by tamino 1 in Singles & Dating

It's this really popular girl who is really nice and everything. Problem is, i feel really sorry for her if they split up (i'm a total softie) can anyone help me on this! (also, does anyone have any idea how to get me noticed?)

2006-06-17 08:23:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a rumor that i like this guy and we are dating. But the catch is that it is true we are dating! i just want this relationship to be private! how do i deal with this?

2006-06-17 08:21:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 08:18:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When do you draw the line and determine that what someone is saying to you is a verbal attach rather than constructive criticism. My boyfriend claimed I attacked him when I told him that he can not continue to blame his father and the way he was raised for his own shortcomings. He is now 42.

2006-06-17 08:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 in Family

i m alone.no kids.need a companion.race or looks does not matter

2006-06-17 08:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

experienced people do reply..

2006-06-17 08:15:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok my bf thinks im strait but...... im actually bi........i want to tell him but idk if he would freak out.... he says bi r hott and stuff like that but i think he would totally flip wut should i do?????

2006-06-17 08:13:32 · 29 answers · asked by absentminded874 2 in Singles & Dating