ok my bf thinks im strait but...... im actually bi........i want to tell him but idk if he would freak out.... he says bi r hott and stuff like that but i think he would totally flip wut should i do?????
2006-06-17 08:13:32 · 29 answers · asked by absentminded874 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him "Since I met you I'm not interested in any woman." If he then shows emotion on his face quickly say "I mean man!" and giggle. Pass it off as a slip of the tongue or a joke.
2006-06-17 08:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on if you're with this guy in hopes for a long-term relationship or marriage, or just short-term. I think people that are bi should not be in serious, long-term relationships, unless your partner is the same, and more often than not, they do not have much of a chance of surviving. Guys are turned on by bi chicks because they think they will be able to involve themselves with the chick you are with. The idea of being with you and being able to have sex with your female interest is what makes it so hot to them. If you are willing to share the female with him then I think he will be okay with it, how long he will deal with it is the question and will he eventually feel that it would be alright for him to see other women since you are doing the same. You will open up a whole new can of worms with the situation you face. The bottom line for me is this though. In all relationships, communication and trust are essential. Hiding it from him is a huge mistake and why you didn't tell him before you become lovers is another question. While dating, I think its okay not to reveal that you are bi, but before becoming boyfriend/girlfriend? Personally I would want to know so I am given the opportunity to decide whether it was something I would be comfortable with. Its a hard decision at this point, but you really should do something. I wish you the best possible outcome.
2006-06-17 08:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he won't flip. Most guys are actually turned on byt things like that. Tell him. There's no harmin that. If he does flip out, then he wasn't meant for you anyways. In any relationship, the key essential is who you are. So show him who you are. It's better for the both of you.
2006-06-17 08:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just figurely speaking if i was ur bf and you broke the news to me about being bi. ME personally think it is hot if i was told my gf was bi but that's me. i would just tell him about your feelings they say a good relationship should be an honest one. depending how old you are no need to know you may just be going through the phase. my teenage son who is 14 is going through a phase of what idenity he wants. but the piont is just be honest
2006-06-17 08:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by loveable_bear3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel out the situation with him a little if you are really worried about his reaction and think he would flip out.Sounds like he is kinda into it or at least curious though.Tell him you had this really crazy dream (make it what you need it to be to fit your situation) see how he reacts and take it from there.good luck...
2006-06-17 08:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him - if you have a good relationship and love each other and are secure with one another, he should be able to handle it. If you guys are open to it - wow the ultimate guy's fantasy! Good luck - hope it works out the way you want it too.
Joe
2006-06-17 08:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth cause a relationship isbased sodly on trust and honesty just tell him knowing guys now and days hell probably think it's hot
2006-06-17 08:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Don't be afraid of what you are. Just be yourself. I'm not bi but, guys dig bi girls. Tell him but just say that you still like him.
2006-06-17 08:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Numan girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. If he doesn't like you for who you are he doesn't deserve you. A true boyfriend loves you for who you are. If he doesn't accept you just dump him and find someone who does except you for who you are. I don't know him so I don't know how he will react but he really SHOULD understand. Plus, it could be more fun for him and you! Can you say three-some!
2006-06-17 08:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down some where nice and comthy and then say i no hoy u like bi girls so do u want to see 1 he says yes and then u say here i am
2006-06-17 08:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by VJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋