He feels sorry lots but because of my attitude problem i am not responding to his words and i keep ignoring him. I dont wanna loose my attitude and at the same time i dont wanna hurt him anymore. wat should i do now? im totally upset and frustrated. I know the attitude problem is very bad. But its born by birth. I cannot change it in any way for anybody. Please advice.............. Thanks.
2006-06-17 08:27:53 · 5 answers · asked by mickie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give in a Friend is hard to find.You may have many but believe me you have non to spare.I know my best Friend of 39 years pissed me off on his 63rd birthday.The next morning his wife called my wife because my Friend had a heart at tact and died.What a damn fool I was.now I can never tell him I'm sorry
A terrible loss.The argument was his fault.But I should have given in.Now I'am the one hurting I don't have my friend to argue with. hind sight is 20/20
2006-06-17 08:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, it could'nt have been a little mis-understanding if the 2 of you are fighting and it elevated to u 2 not speaking to each other. How do u know he feels sorry. It seems you are both sorry and is not responding to each other..You r comfortable with you and your attitude problem u admit u dont want to change.This sounds like you r struggleing in a relationship you r not sure of yourself. You r worried about his feelings before your own. You say u r upset and frustrated....no wonder... i think you should worry about yourself first before u worry about him. This is not a healthy relationship if there is no communication.You say your attitude is from birth and u cant change. Then u need to find someone who is more like u and will accept you for who u really r. Someone who will not give you the silent treatment. Obviously u r here.... so u do like to communicate. You deserve to be treated with respect.
2006-06-17 15:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by marketpower2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you cannot change your attitude but you can call him up and apologise or write a note saying you're sorry. You could even send him an e-card maybe. It always works for me because whenever I have a problem with my friends, I give them an apology note. It most often solves the problem. Good Luck :)
2006-06-17 15:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by HP&PiratesOTC&Prashanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come before attitude no matter what the excuse is. From what you say, it sounds like you can control the attitude but you just choose not to. As I said: friends come before attitude. Controllable or uncontrollable.
2006-06-17 15:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not willing to give in at all, you're wasting your time and our time.
I know it will really really really hurt to give in any (not).
Just walk up to him and say, "We're too good as friends to have stuff hanging between us. Let's move on, ok?"
And then DROP IT. Never bring it up again. You don't get to win. You don't get to be the best. Or the one who held out the longest.
You just get to be a friend. Okay? Okay.
2006-06-17 15:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋