It's this really popular girl who is really nice and everything. Problem is, i feel really sorry for her if they split up (i'm a total softie) can anyone help me on this! (also, does anyone have any idea how to get me noticed?)
2006-06-17 08:23:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just my feelings on this subject: If you know that a guy you are interested in has a girlfriend, you should not even try to be noticed. Think of this guy's girlfriend as a friend of yours. You would not like if another woman was trying to be noticed by your b/f, so why do that to another girl? Let their time together run its course, but try not to interfere...it will only cause you more trouble and emotional damage later. -again, just my beliefs.
2006-06-17 08:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be immature and selfish here. If you're a "Total softie", why would you even think about him. There are too many boys out there to choose from. Put yourself in her shoes, what if you were with him and another girl felt that way about your boyfriend and wanted to be with him, how would you feel? The worse part of this is that you say that she is really nice. Do her and yourself a favor, stay away from him and find someone who is single and really wants to be with you. These things will always come back and haunt you, if not bite you in the behind.
When you say "how to get me noticed". Are you talking about getting noticed by this boy you really like? If that's the case, stay away from him and stop worrying about getting noticed by him. You should work on being noticed by other boys you really like. You sound pretty young and possibly in school. Well, just be yourself, enjoy your youth and have lots of fun. You will have plenty of time to worry about getting into a serious relationship when you get older. Right now is the perfect time to learn about life and working your way towards discovering what love really means. Don't put yourself through an experience that will only lead to disaster and others will have a negative view on the person you are if you attempt to jump in the middle of their relationship. I wish you the best of luck and may you make wise decisions that will have an effect on your future.
2006-06-17 08:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well if they split you will have nothing to do with it.....so if he already has a girl then back off he's already taken i mean sometimes you like people who are already taken but you have to get over the fact that he's taken move on to someone else and if you know that your going to feel sorry for her when they split up then don't try anything to break them up....or don't intifere with there relationship......MOVE ON! if you need to talk contact ME!
2006-06-17 08:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jesseluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Its good that you aren't like those people who totally hate the popular crowd because they always come out on top. So good for you.
2. As I say to almost everybody who asks how they can be noticed: "Just be yourself and don't be afraid to make changes about yourself. Just as long as you feel comfortable doing it. Don't ever try to be someone you aren't just for one person."
I hope it helps
2006-06-17 08:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's best to not even bother breaking them up, and just wait until you think you have the chance... well, of course, you could always like someone else and get over that person. =) So... if you like the person, wait, but no matter what, don't be the one responsible for breaking up a couple.
2006-06-17 08:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by WaterfallOfDestiny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samehere!!! I told one of my friends secretly and a wierd girl somehow hear! She told everyone in 6th grade and 7th grade! The guy that i liked already graduated and so i started get emails from my friends and they asked if i really liked him. I told them that i really liked him! The next days he came to his old school or my school and i just couldn't tell him that i liked him. So my classmate told his brother who my crushes best friend! Now everyone knew including his girlfriend!! Since my friend didn't know that he knew she told himand he said he knew. After those days. He kept looking at me when e visited my class and i tried my best to act normal but i couldn't! At the last day of school i cried my eyes out because i knew i would never see again. At the last moment my friend told me that he just broke up eith his girlfriend becauseOF ME!!!! She wasn't mad and they act as if they never when out wtih each other. I felt bad for her but i felt great for me. As we lined up for the bus he asked me my cell# and my email!! And today he sent me an email! Srry i coundn't answer your question and i told about my life. Goodluck!!
2006-06-17 08:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to everyone. Dont try to steal another girls boyfriend. That is just mean. If they break up he's fair game, until then ... send your affections a different direction.
2006-06-17 08:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want them to get hurt by breaking up then maybe you dont like him as much as you thought. As to getting noticed show more confidence when you walk. Keep your head up, smile and wave to lots of people, any one you know. Dress in vibrent colored clothes. and dont be afraid to express yourself. Go and talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to....Good Luck!!
2006-06-17 08:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by classyree88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is already taken then he is not the guy for you. If he will look at you when he is with her then he will find a new girl once he is with you. He seems to get bored with one girl so he wants to move on. Find a SINGLE guy
2006-06-17 08:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's involved with someone, leave him alone!
You're preparing yourself for a broken heart and you cannot make someone like you it's impossible. Be a friend and talk but do not expect him to drop her because you like him that's aganist his free will.
2006-06-17 09:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋