Family & Relationships - 17 June 2006

is it possible to have guy friends and not ending up with one of us liking each other? for some reason a lot of my guy friends end up flirting and liking me but i dont like them back....i dont flirt with them and i dont lead them on so i dont know whats going on...i mean with maybe a couple of them i think about it but thats it..i dont do anything i would regret...

2006-06-17 17:04:22 · 2 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Friends

2006-06-17 17:03:45 · 32 answers · asked by aru 2 in Family

My wife have been separated for almost five months. She managed to drag my name through the mud, making me look like an Ike Turner personality. That brought a lot of unwanted attention from authorites and my commanders (I'm in the military). The only time I'm allowed near her is when visiting my son. For the past two visits, my wife has remarked how she misses certain aspects of our marriage, mainly sex. She stated how she would like to do certain things to me. I thought to myself, "Why would a woman who is deathly afraid (and accuse me of marital rape) say that she would like to have sex with me after the divorce is finalized?" If I'm so dangerous why does she still fantasize about me? If you're afraid of someone, the last thing you would want to do is **** them. I wish there was a way to use this information. Would this info have any bearing whatsoever?

2006-06-17 17:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there are few guys who look fair and smart, but they have a beard that is a light beard on there chin , does girls like it and do guys look sexy and masculinbe if they have beard on there chin. girls tell me the truth

2006-06-17 17:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is his first gaming system...I was hoping he would get it out of system before now...it was his Christmas present last year. Summer vacation is here and I am out of ideas. If he wasn't playing, then he would probably just be saying he is bored all the time. I think it's probably too late to find him a summer job...that would mean I would be driving him all over the place...AAAGGGHHH!!!
There just aren't any good things for teens to do around here. I mean, he has chores and he cuts grass for spending money. He also plays paintball a couple times a week, but that only takes up so much time.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do? He is a good kid...makes all A's...is never in trouble...maybe I should just count my blessings?

2006-06-17 17:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love her. She likes me. We've shared some pretty... amazing moments. She's afraid of her feelings, but I'm all for it. Commitment to a relationship not looking hopeful in the near future, but nither of us are afraid to show a little bit of public affection.

What should I do?

2006-06-17 17:02:14 · 2 answers · asked by Lost Finding 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is the type of dude that wants a girl to be all over him and he always complain that I dont call him enough . Sometimes I would call him once a day and he would never answer. So the next time I heard from him he would be like if you really want to talk to me call me more than once.What would you do in this situation? Has this ever happened to you?

2006-06-17 17:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 16:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by jonas m 1 in Singles & Dating

she is 18 + I am 19. Our parents have been married for just a couple months, and we all live together. My step-sis is hot, and we share a bathroom and see her naked all the time.
should I go for it?

2006-06-17 16:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by Stewart S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

her brother abuses her, and i can't see him to stop him. i'vnever been to there house and i never see him

what can i do? should i tell someone even though she sed no

and help with any info you can get

2006-06-17 16:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by blah 2 in Friends

so i really like this guy and im not sure if he likes me. how do i win him over? what do guys look for in gurls?

2006-06-17 16:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by beachbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i get a boob job? (B34)

2006-06-17 16:57:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this girl that i really like, but shes mormon so she cant go out yet. My friends think that i'm wasting my time waiting for her when i could be dating a lot of other girls instead. I really like this girl and i want to wait, but there's still a chance of me not going out with her when she's aloud to, so i'm kinda confused on what to do.

2006-06-17 16:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this girl on aol from a party earlyer and i told her i liked her and then she's like aww then starts calling me names like "babe, hun,sweety" then right before she says bye she says goodnight and love ya. so i asked her and she sed its a medifor for she likes me to


whats the chance shes just being nice but doesnt like me?

or do you think she does like me?

2006-06-17 16:56:22 · 5 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

5 years ago I found out my wife was involved with another man. They were found out before sex happened but we suffered horribly. The guy turned out to be a total jerk and hounded me for a couple years with threats and nasty letters. I'm left with questions that she won't answer and doubts about her. We have 3 kids - been together for 16 years - in our mid-years. A lot of her past has come up ie. abortions,drug use,a rape, promiscuity. True this was before we were married but now that the dam has been breached can this be taken as a mere hiccup or is it truely that people don't change. Our sex life is area that brings the most angst. Once or twice a month has been the norm and always with the excuse that it was not me but her. Her straying makes that hard to accept. She seem to want me to provide but we live as brother and sister. SO, can someone really be so needy that they will risk it all and take a chance in losing everything, should she be trusted? Is there hope?

2006-06-17 16:56:02 · 19 answers · asked by art_fart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But I have'nt seen him for a month and two weeks. Cause he's to busy with work like I said he's a workaholic. So my question is should I forget him and move on or wait and see what happen's,
one thing I do get to speak to him all the time . Cause he call me everyday....

2006-06-17 16:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by choco 1 in Singles & Dating

this is not my problem i am juss askin cuz i have seen many people do it

2006-06-17 16:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by babygurl200532618420002000 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughters father is not on her birth certificate, after 13 years can he get any type of custody?
He was in jail when I was pregnant with my daughter, he was in for 2 years. He does know she was born and saw her a few times in the first year after that he said to not bother him anymore, so I did not. Now, all of a sudden he wants to be in her life, after not bothering to even call or write or see her. I don't think he should have any rights. Can I consider it legal abandonment after 13 years? I mostly wanted to add to my previous question and say that I am from PA and he was in jail and he has never paid support or bothered to see her. I just want reassurance and peace of mind that he cannot get her. I am a fit, caring, loving mother, who does not use drugs and raised my kids alone all these years. I have worked hard to give them a great life and feel as though he has nothing to use against me.

2006-06-17 16:54:16 · 1 answers · asked by bad11271 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have as strong a sense of right and wrong as they did, say, fifty years ago?

2006-06-17 16:52:51 · 43 answers · asked by teambargain 6 in Family

last night my girlfriend was at her sister's house cause that's the only place i can see her cause her mom doesn't think we should talk anyway her sister called me at 10 and told me to check on her cause she was home alone so i called and she said she was going to bed but she didn't know her sister called me anyway she usually tells me to come over but she didn't so i thought there was someone else over there so when i got off i went to her sister's apartment and parked and watched well i called her sister and told her if someone was over there it was over come to find out noone was there anyway this morning her sister told her and she called me and broke up with me. i really like this girl and want to be with her but she won't talk to me. what should i do i already bought roses

2006-06-17 16:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by jamminj_15 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 16:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by The Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

EXAMPLE:

The best proposal I witnessed was one that was done at a professional indoor soccer game. The announcer said that it was time for one of theose fan contests. He asked all people in the stadium to stand. Then he asked all people in section 212 to remain standing. Then he asked everyone in row N to continue standing. Finally, he said that the winner of the contest was in seat number 3. The winner was instructed to look at the jumbo screen to discover her prize, and it said, "Sarah, will you marry me?" Then about four ushers came from the top of the stands carrying balloons and flowers. He got down on one knee, and the crowd went wild. (She said yes.)

2006-06-17 16:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by k 3 in Weddings

I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15, so we are too young to get married. When I am with her I feel like I'm complete, like there is nothing in my life that is missing. I know that she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, so what should I do?????

2006-06-17 16:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jesse O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and not fat and I have a job...but women never hit on me or they turn me down. I am not going to die my hair and contact makes my eyes water.

2006-06-17 16:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by GTZEVRYTHNG 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-17 16:46:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I keep on telling her how ill change and that i realized exactly what not to do in a relationship, i love you etc etc....Everyone says not to call. But i want her to think i care. Ive sent flowers, sobbed to her, ignored her and evreything... but she still says she doent know if she wans to be with me...and shes confused. Yet theres another guy in the picture now who is her best friends, boyfriends best friend, and they all dont really like me. And shes telling everyone were done, but me she says were on a break and that she just doesnt know cause she feels there nothing left for her to give anymore, because of stuff thats happened in the past.. I bought her a trip to mexico for her bday before we broke up that were suppost to leave on in 2 weeks, and she said she has no money etc.But i said getting away would maybe help us work stuff out, but if she doesnt go shouldi pretty much know its done? and what should i say to her etc. I want her back so bad... HELP

2006-06-17 16:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had my heart broke by the love of my life. I am 43 and have never been married and I am a miserable mess. Parts of me have been ripped out of me and I have no interest in things that I have always been interested in. I think about her all the time and find myself fantasizing over what was good. I poured my heart, soul and life out to her yet I am not good enough and she will not explain statements she has made and avoids discussing things to which I deserve answers. Please believe me that this is about far more than sex. I have NEVER felt this way about anyone in my life.

2006-06-17 16:42:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going to two mid-summer weddings this year. I really like this one dress that I have that's pinkish white. I don't know if that would be appropriate because it might steal the bride's thunder because I'm also wearing white although it's pinkish. Is this really an appropriate color? If not, what color would work best with a summer wedding?

2006-06-17 16:41:39 · 9 answers · asked by I'm awesome! 3 in Weddings

2006-06-17 16:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and we have been friends since kindergarden i dont want to mess things up by telling him but at the same time i think he like me back....should i tell him???

2006-06-17 16:40:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships